How can I maximize my matches in a new city?

[Anonymous]

I am actually getting quite a bit of activity, much more than I am used to. It’s a great boost of confidence. But I want to attract the right women.

I’m really not much of a performative guy. I just kind of keep my head down, go about my business, get my work done and just wish I could have a good woman to come home to.

I’m not rich by any means but am doing well enough to afford a luxury apartment in a pricier part of town. Is there anything in particular I should lean into when tailoring my profile?

[Anonymous]

Of all the things you said, “I am actually getting quite a bit of activity” is going to attract the most women; it's what got my attention even. Oh, other women are interested in this guy, I should see for myself what they are noticing about him... etc. The rest is just going on a lot of first dates until you find that chemistry.

The luxury apartment in a pricier part of town is all the “rich” they're really looking for. Stated another way, they're not looking for Bill Gates, they just don't want a deadbeat, and this shows you are not.

[rose_noire]

You don't need to be louder, just clearer.

Your calm is the advantage.

Show your real life in photos, write that honest bio, and be a regular somewhere in your new city.

[slatyb]

Be as honest as you can and as specific as you can -- age, height, weight, interests, etc. Do not say things like "I enjoy beach holidays...", instead indicate how you spend your time, e. g. "On Sundays I like to make coffee, make love, do the crossword puzzle, then go out for some fun." Indicate who you would like to meet with positive statements. No negativity, don't list disqualifying traits.

[Nikki1989]

Go out and socialize like normal people. That worked for 100s of years, and it still works now.

[Anonymous]

Personality hobbies and why you’d make a good partner