My new boyfriend has a habit of texting and calling me 10+ times a day, he has also started tagging me in his status posts and just can't seem to keep his hands off me when we kiss. When we do kiss he just keeps wanting to continue. If I move my head away he gets hold of my chin and moves in again. When we do go to bed he just won't leave me alone and as soon as he wakes up, whever I'm asleep or not he tries to wake me up by thrusting himself on me.
He is also very verbal with his feelings towards me, in fact in one night he can tell me I'm beautiful, I'm amazing, I'm such a lovely person, he really likes me, he is falling for me, he loves me, over and over again.
Now I have said I want him to cut down on the contact as he isn't giving me the chance to miss him and that maybe sometimes it would be nice to just cuddle up and watch a film. I have expressed my concern that he always expects sex every time we see each other. Plus I have said actions speak so much more than words.
Since I have mention these things, and I did do it in a nice way, he has literally stopped all of it lol.
He will only text or call me if I have initiated it and now he doesn't say any nice things at all, although he has started writing me poems and being more romantic.
We do cuddle and he hasn't groped me at all, which is a relief to be honest. I just felt like a sex toy before.
Is his behavior because he has the hump and is really not happy I have expressed how I feel?
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possibly not, but you need to give him time to adjust and understand what your words meant, he may need reassuiring sometimes that its OK to at times be spontaneous and initiate sex, but all the time whenever you both meet is not good, and that a cuddle is appropriate, the fact that he is being romantic is a good way for him to express what he used to tell you, but again, ley him know that you would like him to be spontaneous with that but not constant, eventually he will understand that all this means a lot more when its rationed, because when constant, the meanings of the words dissappear and become daily life, which gets taken for granted and eventually means nothing, but try and give him support in his efforts and guide him to express his emotions in a way you enjoy, good luck,x1