Why does she tell me to delete her number but she keeps texting?

[MrFlirtatious1992]

Me and this girl had a fall out because a relationship wouldn't work out so suddenly she is mad. I don't know why. Then she texts me to delete her number and Facebook. I ignored her and she keeps texting and telling me to do it. If she hates me so much why doesn't she just do it herself?

[ivarei]

she's trying to manipulate you into giving her attention. she's trying to hurt your feelings and make you show her that you're sad about things not working out between you and her.

[Skyler123]

This too. I wouldn't feed into her games.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

Damn, that makes sense :S thanks!

[ivarei]

glad I could help. she has feelings for you and she wants you to show that you have feeling for her as well.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

I have done that, I've told her how much I care and I actually cried like a little bitch about it last night and she don't beleive a word. She says she doesn't even want to be friends. Why continue to text then?

[ivarei]

then delete her. do you want her to stop?

[MrFlirtatious1992]

No of course not, I really do like this girl. But she just seems to want to argue. The more I ignore her she just throws more crap at me. I don't know what to do.

[ivarei]

why do you like her? and why are you arguing?

[MrFlirtatious1992]

She moving to university in September and I said I really don't think we should have a relationship right now as things would get hard if it went into September. She agreed, but now today she's really mad about it. I honestly am lost for words. I'm just ignoring her for now. I don't want this argument to escalate

[ivarei]

That's probably for the best.

[ivarei]

But it's obviously causing her a lot of distress so you maybe you should ask her what she wants you to do...

[MrFlirtatious1992]

I know it was hard for me to tell her that aswell but she obviously taken it pretty hard.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

and she wants me to delete her from everything. I don't think she really wants that though otherwise she wouldn't keep texting me

[ivarei]

no she doesn't which is why you need to ask her what she really wants and then do it.

[Skyler123]

She wants attention. You ignoring her is bothering her and is hurting her even more because of the whole falling out situation.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

But she's basically telling me to get out of her life, I don't understand why she would keep doing it if she didn't want to speak to me.

[Skyler123]

She obviously has feelings for you. But at the same time she clearly does not know how to handle this situation. She sounds a bit immature, just tell her you are only doing/respecting what she asked of you.

[MrFlirtatious1992]

She is very immature. I don't think she's had a guy turn her down before. It could be that and she's throwing a tantrum because she's not getting her way but I don't know at all.

[sephora]

lol, because she does not use logic to get out of this situation.

[winherback]

She still likes you..

[Anonymous]

She wants you to beg her for her forgiveness

[MrFlirtatious1992]

I've got too much self respect to do that.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand. I feel the same way. But she clearly doesn't want to lose you but she wants you to make ammesa

[MrFlirtatious1992]

Sorry what did that last word say?

[Opinion Owner]

Ah sorry. I meant amends. My phone auto filled it

[MrFlirtatious1992]

How am I supposed to do that without begging like a lost puppy? Because I sure as hell am not going to beg her, no way.

[Opinion Owner]

Talk it out. Invite her to coffee

[MrFlirtatious1992]

She doesn't even want to talk on the phone, let alone meet up.

[Opinion Owner]

Then just let it go. She's not worth it

[MrFlirtatious1992]

Easier said than done, but true.

[Anonymous]

She must be very immature.