Would you date them?
Would you try to change them?
Would it be a deal breaker and you would walk away?
(before you rant on and on about how "pot is bad" I'll tell you that A LOT more people than you think get stoned ALL THE TIME! People are absolutely shocked to hear I am one although I make an effort not to let anyone know who is against it. The people who get the top marks in the sciences at my uni are all hardcore stoners and we all get stoned together!)
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