Could you/would you date a stoner?

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would you date a person that smokes marijuana? why / why not?

cun7n1nja · Accepted Answer

Yes, and I am. I smoke also though and have for a long time, so this is more normal to me than recreational. It's kind of like eating sweets, that's my mentality about it. I don't always crave or want it, but other times it really hits the spot and I enjoy it, and it's a normal and available enough thing in my life that I don't think anything of indulging myself with it. =P I don't 'need' it when I'm upset or to get through my day, I don't spend a bunch of money on it [it's usually available to me free but I wouldn't anyway], I go about my responsibilities and pay my bills as usual. I'm not a stereotypical 'lazy stoner' who does nothing and isn't going anywhere, and I'm down to date someone who smokes weed, but they can't be that kind of stoner either. And luckily, he's not, he's more like me.

ambertaylor · Accepted Answer

Been there, done that. My ex was a stoner for about 5 years, smoking it everyday but he gave up about 5 months before we met so that wasn't an issue, however the paranoia and depression that he got from smoking it so much at the time played a big part within the relationship and caused so many problems because his head just wasn't in the right place, it wasn't just the smoking but it did play a part in it. I wouldn't date someone who'd regularly smoked in the past again, the best I'd go is if a guy smoked it on a very and I mean VERY rare occasion, like at a party once a year or something. I'd warn anyone to steer clear because although it's got a reputation as a reasonably 'safe' drug, it can mess with a person's mind.

LiddowCupiid · Accepted Answer

No because the person never smells as attractive as they look. I dated a guy who smoked weed and because he was just that person your describing he always smelled like he just smoked a fresh L and I couldn't stand it. It had became his B.O.  and he slowly but surely was ruining his lips. They were nice but the more he smoked the more they turned purple/blackish which was a turn off

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. For a few different reasons like it is illegal, they look stupid when stoned (I think people look stupid when drunk  too), the smell, I'm certain they will hang around some of the more stereotypical stoners and I really don't like them, and it just seems like something high school kids do. I was completely put off by all of it in high school.

DeepBlue · Accepted Answer

As long as is wasn't adversely affecting her life or our relationship I wouldn't have a problem with it. I've been known to smoke a bowl from time to time too, so it would be hypocritical of me to reject someone on that basis.

Anonymous · Answer

No. for many reasons...I likely don't have much in common with a person like that, I don't want to be around an illegal substance, I hate the smell, likely not someone I would have children with because what kind of example would he be, likely he is unintelligent, probably acts recklessly when high and is immature, whereas I need a man.

calialltheway1993 · Answer

half my friends were stoners back in high school, so I don't mind being friends with stoners, but dating them? Hmm... I not sure. I don't smoke and I'm sure I wouldn't want to associate with his environment, and his stupid high friends.

rachel05 · Answer

negative.. in my book I'm reading he'd qualify for the fixer- upper guy to stay away from.. drugs are a big no, no for me.. not into that kinda thing or lifestyle.. it'd a dumb choice I wouldn't approve of.

Natural_chick_ · Answer

my first real boyfriend smoked weed.. I mean everyone has a hobby ! you shouldn't discriminate..along as he doesn't abuse it and it is not like he is a drunk. that is worst! but yes, I would date a stoner as long as I get attention more then it!

WoIIie · Answer

That wouldn't be the deciding factor. If she was an all-around druggie and acted like a hippie with no drive in life then yeah, deal breaker.

Mr_Solo_Dolo · Answer

I would as long as she had her sh*t together and smoked on her free time, not everyday 24/7.

sweet_18 · Answer

No probably not. If he were doing it as often as once a week then it might be a problem. Every day, no. But every once in a while I'm OK with.

cyrus7 · Answer

hell no, it smells horrible and also I wouldn't want to associate with someone that needs an external substance to have fun

InMyHeart · Answer

no. I don't like associating with that kind of people, let alone date them.

dawnfang · Answer

No, I have no problem with people doing that, but I would not want to date a stoner.

jacquesvol · Answer

No, her addiction will always  take first place, relegating me to second place.

Anonymous · Answer

I persoanlyl wouldn't do it with him but that could be his thing, but yeah id still date him.

PoeticNinja · Answer

Yes, I would. As long as he has his life together.

DebiPie · Answer

No. I don't want to. Never have.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I wouldn't date anyone who smokes.

99PROBLEMS · Answer

Yes, we can smoke together.

ihatework · Answer

yep

handsomejackk · Answer

Absolutely not.

taster · Answer

yes

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