Not only would I not date her but I wouldn't even give her the time of day.
I have to date, lost about 30 friends because of drugs, all started with pot, all were totally sure that they could control it and all were totally sure that it only affects them as much as they want it too.
All were totally sure they had control over it, and while some went onto harder drugs others lost their minds because of the mental damage it can cause and because it affects everyone differently over the long term. Some dies because they were stones and making bad choices and some dies because if an overdose on harder drugs and some died because of mental health and suicide.
Some thought that it's just a joint and got caught by military random drug testing, their life and career destroyed because of it.
Because of those things and because when I'm dating somebody I want to know for sure that she has a clear head and when she says yes she's actually able to say it and when she says no she's again actually able to say it, because of that I won't even sit in the same room as a woman who's a stoner
So glad I am not like that... Had a friend who would only smoke around guys and always acted like she was drunk afterwards. Like I know this stuff is dank AF but c'mon. People like that ruin the stereotype for cannabis consumers everywhere. 😭😭😭😭
Yeah i just dont see myself with someone like that. Where not having a blunt a day means the end of the world for yah or whatever. Or at least a few days or even weeks lol. If its someone who smokes it every now and then, then sure.
I'm not a lesbian but... Smoking marijuana should never be your entire personality. In the same way that being a basketball player shouldn't be your entire personality. It's fine to date someone who smokes weed, but there's a difference between someone who smokes weed and someone who is consumed by it.
Depends on the level. As long as they're not high all the time and have their shit together. If high all the time, I feel like you can't stand to be around me sober.
It depends on how much they smoke, and their attention span. I went to university with this hot girl. She was always so bored with classes, she didn’t have the attention span to go through the classes sober, she’d smoke weed before class even before morning classes. How is that any less bad than someone that drinks 24/7? If they don’t feel like they need drugs to function, and it enhances natural artistic tot intellectual talent they already have, that’s different. If it’s for a serious medical condition that another exception. Otherwise no.
Never. Up until just a few years ago, it would be hard to find someone against pot more then I was. However, after a clarification of a family member, and doing a lot of research, I have done a 180 on the subject. Then, after urging from my primary care doctor, and consultation with my neurologist (I have sever back issues), I tried it for the first time in January 2018 at age 49. The first time was a horrible disaster. I won't smoke so it was edibles and I didn't understand how they worked. So I ended taking 25mg my first time. Uggg that was bad. but once I learned how to do it, I now take it when I go to bed. So the effects start after I am asleep and allow me to sleep without taking opiods. I hate the "high" feeling so I don't take them when I am awake. If someone takes it all the time, that is not someone I would ever want to be associated with. She would show she is incapable of making adult decisions.
Well I think it depends on the drugs she uses. If it's recreational light stuff and her life is still functional, then I probably would date them. I'd just hope they smoke on the balcony so as to be considerate for my own health and lungs. And I would hope they don't kiss me with a bad breath, lol.
But on a more serious note though, if they're on harder drugs and their life is totally off the rails then definitely not. I'd offer rehab as an option but dating them will be the last thing on my mind, partially due to the fact I'd be tearing my hair off in stress, which is not why I want to be in a relationship with someone.
Nope. Total deal breaker. I don't do weed or any other drugs, and I'm not into the drug/stoner culture at all. I've had friends in the past who got into it and they turned into boring people because of it. It tends to take over their lives and becomes a main focus and a constant dialog that I'm just not interested in, or interested in being around at all. But more than anything, I prefer to talk and be with with someone for who they TRULY are, and to not have to fight through a drug-induced haze to get to know the real person within... or never be able to because of it. Stoneheads might be alright for birds of a feather, but it's not for me at all. I prefer someone with a clear mind.
@Secret6620 Well, I didn't mean to imply weed is a drug, but I guess it came off sounding that way. I'm well aware though, as I live in Canada. lol My bad though. 👍
As long as that's not all there is to them, that they're not consumed by it. As a fling I would be like 'Hell yeah why not?' For a serious relationship, it would be more complicated because my parents are very strict and think all my friends are angels (they know about 1% of my friends, the most innocent ones)
definitely would date someone who smokes, since I smoke myself. but I don't like when someone bases their entire personality off of being a stoner and makes it their whole life. so smoking very frequently wouldn't be a deal-breaker but only ever caring about being a stoner would be.
No, not at this point in my life. I can accept someone who smokes pot occasionally (without me) but nothing harder and nothing regularly. I broke up with a woman that I was deeply in love with because of a drug problem that she had. It was hard but it was the right thing to do
No, even at my young age I look for women who would be a good mother in the future. Not because I expect to marry them but if for whatever reason I last long enough in a relationship and that happens (which is unlikely of course but possible) I dont want to have someone like that.
I understand it isn't as bad as a lot of things and much better than cigarettes. But it's the same with smoking and alcohol, not my thing. Just the fact that it's labeled as a drug is what I dont like. Even if the harm is basically nothing.
I've seen myself in old pictures wherein I was smoking pot with my friends. Although it clearly showed that we were all happy and having fun, it also got me turned off at myself.
If you had asked me a few years ago id say "yes i would date a stoner girl" but i learned better a couple years ago. I loaned i girl i cared about thousands of dollars to help "take care of her baby"(not my kid in case anyone assumed so), it turned out that she had become addicted to pot and products derived from it. We aren't friends any more. At this point id be surprised if she actually paid me back.
Believe me all stoners are not like that. It's not an addictive substance. If she was addicted it was because she has an addictive personality. Thanks for the feedback. 💖
I have to be honest, I have dated a chronic in the past and there was a distinct taste to her during oral. I might do it, but I would be careful about certain aspects in the bedroom. As well, one time I walked into her living room and she had her last $60 sitting on the coffee table and point blank asked me if it was wrong that she was using it to buy weed instead of groceries. I thought to myself, well maybe her sense of priorities are a tad skewed.
Oh nooooooo that's a pothead. They make all smokers look bad. Like drunks make causal alcohol drinkers look bad too. Thanks for sharing your experience. Super helpful. 💖
Whattt absolutely! Someone I can smoke with, be silly, go to an isolated beach and lay naked with a joint... Hell yea! Can this quarantine end by the time summer starts? I made myself really wanna do that asap
I have many times.. but that's all they are to me stoner chicks.. they are fun until they are not high and that's when the crazy comes in.. The sex sometimes can be good.
Do we get along? Do we have fun together minus pot? If so then Hell Ya I would date her. Just because she smokes weed isn't a good enough reason not to date her.
I'm all for marijuana legalization, but on a personal level, "stoners" annoy the hell out of me; there's no way I could date one. I'm not anti-drug, but someone who's really into weed just doesn't appeal to me.
it depends if it was a girl who is sweet like you sure i never smoke weed before but i have smelled it before as long as the girl could smoke it outside or in another room and was smart about it i would be ok with it
ehh I don't know chances are if a guy smokes (Weed) then from what my freinds say they wish they can have a girlfriend the smokes too Im on the fence about it becouse the only two girls I've dated that smokes either had other probloms the first 1 drank almost everynight and had breakdown without smoking cuz thats the only thing she ever does and the second 1 liked to take xanex so yeah that kinda ruined it for me so its a REALLY BIG IF question for me
Cannabis isn't a drug... But I understand what you mean. Zoloft and Advil are drugs. Not naturally occurring in the environment. That's the difference... Just some quick facts. Thanks for the post 🌸💖🌸
I like that you acknowledge each post 😊 thanks. I'm honestly not trying to be pedantic but after your explanation of what "drugs" are I questioned my use of the word and decided to search for a definition.
A drug is a medicine or other substance which has a physiological effect when ingested or otherwise introduced into the body.
I just like to be accurate myself. But I realised I'm coming across just sounding like a twat now.
Oh hell yes. Let me ask the reverse. Would you date a man who drinks until slightly intoxocated or drunk regularly? I know which one sounds more positive to me.
I would not be with anyone who gets high off of weed ( even if they do not get high on it I am still turned off especially since I can not stand the dsmell of it. Yes I have smelled many different types of weed over the years.), crack, cocaine, heroin, shrooms, opioids, oxycontin, other prescription drugs, painkillers, household chemicals etc. I would not be with anyone who uses tobacco products of any kind be it cigarettes, cigars, vape pens, pipes, chewing tobacco etc. Even edibles are a no go. Someone who is an alcoholic is a no go.
Cannabis isn't a drug. But I understand what you mean. Advil and Zoloft are drugs. Not naturally occurring in the environment. Cannabis can be smoke directly from the plant. Obviously drying it makes it easier and more manageable but it's not mandatory. Thanks for the feedback though. 💨💚💨
Yes a real man can be with a strong woman simply because that what a real man wonts. Someone they can depend on. A relationship is supposed to be 100% to 100%
I find that women that are regular users of any substance are more likely to be addicts or have issues with inhibition. While if love to date a chick that can handle regular smoking I doubt that I'll give it another shot.
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