If you want a relationship I'd say it's a big deal. If you just want sex then you're doing great. If you really want a relationship I think you have to date for awhile before having sex. Having sex doesn't seal the girlfriend/boyfriend deal unless either of you thinks it does. But actually knowing someone with their clothes on is kind of important for a relationship.
Why don't any of these women turn into relationships. Do they choose to leave or you?
I'd say take things slower coffee, dessert, dinner, parks, play tennis, arcades, etc. Any guy I've met in a bar, gotten drunk with, or slept with quickly has never turned into a relationship.
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I don't think its a bad thing, it just shows you haven't found anyone you really care about enough yet and your not going to waste your time on someone you know is wrong. Plus everyone has needs so hooking up once in awhile id say is pretty normal. The only worry it would bring in most females is that you don't know how to act in an actual relationship, id be afraid that you might try and pull some high school bull in the scene you don't know how a girl wants to be treated in a relationship.
If I liked you and you told me this, I would worry that you might not take anything serious. It might be a turn-off for some girls if they want a long, committed relationship. But it's not too late. You're only 23 ! You still have plenty of time to get into a relationship :)
Here? Yes. That's a huge problem considering majority hate hooking up and people who hook up. In reality? It's not a big deal, you just haven't found the right one yet. Don't worry brother.
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well, I am old school. and that's exactly part of the prob. w. dating nowadays.
that girls are just having sex w.o enjoying it as part of an emotional bond.
guys have no prob. just having sex...
if you want then don't have sex w. them till you get to know the girl and have a talk about being serious.don't see anything wrong with that be glad you have been laid before
So you don't want anything serious? Meh, me neither.
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