Dating

Is it a bad thing if I haven’t really gone after a relationship at the age of 22?

I didn’t really join the hookup culture that most people my age are on. A girl wanted to go out with me during high school but I didn’t take her on that offer because I wasn’t attracted to her all that much. I can’t see myself in a relationship because there’s not really anyone I can find who is compatible with me or wants a long term commitment. Or maybe that’s just something I tell my self because I want to hide myself from the truth. To be honest at this point I honestly don’t see the point in relationships. I used to want one because I felt I was missing something that others had but now it just feels like all I wanted from the start was that feeling or medal of achievement saying that I’ve been in one before. I feel like that feeling is enough to free me. I think this feeling stems from me wanting to be like everyone else in society. I fear being an outlier.

Is it a bad thing if I haven’t really gone after a relationship at the age of 22?
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