Is 21 too young for a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

I had a gf last Valentine's day and it didn't workout longterm and my parents keep asking me if I have a new girl to take out. I don't and Im recently 21 and I told them I'm going bar hopping and I'm going to flirt with the single women. They said I need to stop going out and settle down. They don't like my college friends and I usually go out with a group of girls and guys who are just like me and we have fun.

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[LilWeezey]

I think 21 is the starting age to have thoughts of settling down but partying and single mingle fooling around stuff is ok

I think 30 or older and your still fooling around it's a problem. But that's just my opinion.

[Asker]

I plan on partying until around 26.

[LilWeezey]

That's a fair age

[Desire444]

I think when a person is ready for an actual serious relationship is when it's the right age

[Asker]

I don't know when that is going to because I am so wild I can't see myself being responsible.

[Desire444]

Well I've learned that it's better to get out the crazy fun and be single and then settle down cuz if u don't you will regret it,

[thelanatellama]

Not at all! I don't think any age above that of the legal age of concent is too young for a serious relationship

[Asker]

Well my mom has the idea I'm hanging out with sluts and doesn't realize that women who are 21 can flirt and party without being sketchy. I don't know I've never really tried dating since last year and I've gone to bars and I can honestly say I'm happier at a bar than i ever was with my ex.

[thelanatellama]

Maybe your ex just wasn't right for you

[Asker]

Well I don't know why but ever since the break up I've enjoyed doing what I want when I want to do it and and I can still hook up. My issue is I don't know if the pain of lost love is worth ever falling in love again in the first place

[Lady7]

Nope, not at all.

[Asker]

Well its it a problem to say that I am happier at a bar with friends than I am in a relationship.