I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple months now- I am 20 going on 21 and he just turned 20. He's always been kind of free spirited and wild I think so I wouldn't say he's at his prime or anything but he's still at the point where he hangs out with his friends every day that we don't hang out and sometimes we go hang out with his friends when were hanging out with each other. So he sees them 4-5/7 days a week. None of them really have girlfriends either so they don't have any sort of... Priorities like they don't have anyone to worry about so they can't understand that my boyfriend does have someone he has to tend to. I just feel like he hasn't grasped big boy notions yet, like spending more time with me, making sure to come to family functions, and a few other things. And he's so busy I feel like. In the months we have been dating, he's went out of state for a week twice, is going out for basically a week in June, and that's honestly super hard. Its like once a month he up out of the blue is gone for an entire week. its hard. I am certain he is my one, i am just afraid it might not be the right time. I dont want to rob him of his fun times, freedom, and whatever. I know they can be balanced but i don't want to be "that" girlfriend you know. I mean I obviously will talk to him about this I just wanted to hear others opinions. Is 20 too young?
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Anon who thinks young girls are stupid, what are you going on about? What does that have to do with anything? Young boys are "stupid" because they are young and make mistakes. Young girls make mistakes. Wow who knew young undeveloped brains could make mistakes just like the rest of humans! Unheard of! Unforunately, this burden seems to still be affecting you at your ripe old wise age! Thankfully it doesn't apply to me! Your comment is rude, stupid, and I wish it didn't exist. Have a good one.
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