um ok well ik this might sound lame or rly weird but my current boyfriend had never kissed anyone until he started dating me. at first he just did this sorta as a joke but he looked up how to kiss online and well we started reading it etc. ik if he is just naturally good at it or if it was what he read but I can tell you one thing he is the best kisser I have ever met! he is just like perfect at it. so you want something to read and watch well here ya go:
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I think the first one is mainly what we looked at. But here is some of my advice. ALWAYS have mints. Keep your teeth brushed. Don't just stand there and don't move, use your hands and put them around her waist on run your fingers through her hair or something. Breathe through your nose. Something that I love for my boyfriend to do is like if I'm like mad at him or something or I'm kinda refusing to kiss him (which we are just messing around because it is impossible to stay mad at him) he will reach up and pull my face around toward his and kiss me and omg now I miss him so freakin much! Practice makes perfect unless ur a natural like him so just try some different things and see what you are comfortable with!
Good luck, hope I helped! :)
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Take it slow, don't rush it. Also don't psych yourself out. Just take a deep breath relieve the nerves. The main tip I can give you is don't kiss her too hard, or forcefully. Keep it soft and comfortable. Also you can hold her head in a way that you think is cute. Everyone has a unique style, the more you kiss her the better you will get at it.
If you've not had much practice and are a bit nervous another idea is for you to let the girl take the lead feel what she is doing and reply with her choice of movements I've kissed a couple of guys in the past were I've noticed there allowing me to take full control and its kind of nice for us to that as well.
dont slobber, barely part your lips DONT OPEN TOO WIDE its weird and kinda gross, don't shove your toungue in, I kind of nibble on her lower lip with mine, DO NOT MAKE IT SEEM LIKE YOUR TRYING TO EAT HER FACE, you can do a lot of things wrong since I don't know what exactly you did its kinda hard to help but those are the basics oh yea and if she needs to breath let her lol
Practice. Stay calm. Don't over do it. Mix it up and keep her on her toes. Take control and ask her what she likes. Pay attention and make good use of your hands. Kissing is more than tongue and lips.
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Well I am 20 and I had my first kiss a year ago and he drooled all over me so don’t do that. But I haven’t kissed many guys only 4 and I was told that I am a natural. But I did not just do it I practiced on my pillows and I guess I got good like that lol I know that’s stupid but that’s what I did. Good luck!
kissing is like playing chess and you know you are gonna lose. Your lips should be warm and please don't have weird breath. Toothpaste and mouthwash or gum are anoying tastes so I say plan on having a fresh "normal" breath. Don't slober. Just make sure ur lips are moist and the soft inner pink part is the sweetest so pucker a little after the intitial contact. Aw idk... Do what feels right. I could tell you to watch some chick flicks but the best advice I can give is to press lightly and getting longer. Hold her sweetly by whatever way feels comfortable especially for her).
Have fun and be safe!Really, most kissing advice isn't going to work. I'll let you know that. Every person kisses differently and acts differently to being kissed. When you kiss a person, you should react naturally-don't pucker your lips like they do in the films! Just make sure your aiming for her mouth, close your eyes, and let your instinct take over. Good luck :)
this is a cute video. I was giggling when I watched this :-)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCITaAyJR9Y
Nah bruv kissing is a natural instinct. I got told that I'm a great kisser first time so I knew I had it. Maybe you two just didn't have the chemistry
I love when a guy will kiss me really softly and then he will bite my lip but, not to hard. So try that. GOOD LUCK
kissing advice won't work, I suggest on hand experience to perfect this skill
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