Polls: Dating

genuine question, i ain't asking this passive aggressively. i was playing truth and dare with my brother and his friends and they decided to ask me this lmao. of course i said yes 😂 then they asked wouldn't i compare myself to her and im like — she's my girlfriend not my colleague.

anyways, what about you guys? even if you take away the hard diet and makeup, models are pretty solid.

27F, I just don’t get why I’ve never had luck with dating. I’ve only used dating apps and while they have a bad rep I know they work for a lot of people too. I’ve been told im cute but when I say I never get approached by guys in person im not kidding. Everyone I knew back in HS and college talked about getting approached by guys. I’ve never had a LTR only dated someone for a few months back in my early twenties. Dating apps I use very casually and have kind of lost interest. The same way all the other women I know had dating happen so naturally for them I feel it should be the same for me which is why I refuse to approach guys moving fwd (with apps that’d be me messaging first). I used to message first here and there but stopped. I get matches on the apps and getting dates aren’t the issue, it’s more along the lines of not attracting the guy I’d like or there’s lack of connection/things fizzle out/guys only want a hook up.

Let me know why in the comments :)

ex. 5'2 vs a 5'9

I wouldn't care if I lost all of my teeth

Noticed black people don’t date each other and want to date outside their race. Do they struggle with this?

there's this guy who is perfect. He is really sweet and he is such a gentlemen but he is short. Not necessarily shorter than you but just considered short. Say like you're 5'1 and he is 5'4

Ok here we go again, so whenever someone asks me out, or if I’m interested, I tend to go from “hmm oh ok cool” to “nvm forget it 🤦🏻‍♀️ “ pretty quickly, bc ultimately I know we are going to want diff things or at least, go at very very very very very very very different paces.

yeah I’m sure I’ve asked something like this before, but I’ll go it again.

If you are dating someone and you have not done more than hug, maybe kiss, and no one has said anything, how many days until you seek it upon yourself to inquire? or do you say anything at all? Do you just wait & then at some point say ‘it’s not gonna work’?