Polls: Dating

“Sorry this is late. So I’m just going to say it. I’m not going to text you after this and I’m deleting your number so don’t worry. I get you weren’t interested in me at all. I got that from how you acted. And I addressed it last week in a nice way I thought. I also get now you don’t want to be friends either since you haven’t said anything and ignored me. That’s fine. But it’s really rude to ghost someone and leave them hanging like you did me. So in the future when you talk to other girls. Just be honest with them and tell them you are no longer interested in talking anymore. I’m sure you can came up with some sort of bogus excuse, but a bogus excuse is a lot kinder than just ignoring them and ghosting them like you did me. You have a daughter. Think how you would want someone to treat her. Have a nice life. “

Considering she’s 5’7, that’s pretty short for a guy

Do post a picture of them.

Assuming all of them share the same personality.

In the pic a young woman is rejecting an older man. I had a guy that wouldn’t mess with me because I was 2 years younger lol

A woman gets approached by guys but only the kind of men she doesn’t find attractive. If they’re good looking, they’re usually flighty. And if they’re decent looking and nice, they’re usually short. She’s single because a guy that checks her boxes just hasn’t come along yet, she’s in her mid twenties by the way

I think dating apps are for the very desperate.

I met my long term boyfriend in person through a friend when I was 15. I never understand when people say they’re attached to someone they never met in person.

The concept sounds so dumb to me.

If I haven’t touched them, felt them, smelt them then I can’t love them. I can’t even like them! Maybe they look nice in photos but that’s it.

It’s not gonna be anything like oh my God I can’t live without them now that they’ve blocked me or something.

I think technology dating apps like Tinder and marriage sites have made people so desperate and sexually frustrated. People have no standards. They just want a cum bucket or a human dildo.

I tell you even if I were 40 and I were single for years I still wouldn’t be with the first person who showed interest if I am not 150% physically, sexually attracted and emotionally attached to the person. If they’re not perfect for me then they won’t be my SO.

I personally feel like In most relationships the man has to cater to the woman. On dates it is about whether or not he paid. On holidays it is about what the man got for the woman. On marriage it is about what kind of ring, how he did it etc... I feel like this is bullshit and there should be a 50/50 effort. Anyone else agree?

Why?

#Dontdothat

Hey, Who would you prefer to date and marry?

Let's say he's a really nice guy but he's femmine and wants a women that will lead him in a relationship.

I know most of you will say you dont believe in leagues but we’re going to discuss it anyways. If i’m being 100% honest, if i feel someones out of my league, its likely because i dont see myself working to get to their level. For example, if i got all dolled up and Brad Pitt took me on a date, I’d end it with “I had a great time but you're so out of my league.” I say that because 99% of the time, I’m going to be dressed in sweats and walking around with that “i just woke up” bed hair 😂 I’m not willing to make the efforts to get on his level in the long run, so I may as well say he’s out of my league, send him on his way, and save him from my lack of efforts since I’m not willing to change. Now lets say, he likes me for the tomboy i am. Its happened before. But i dont fully trust they’ll stay happy. I liked this guy Robbie in college. He was 9/10 gorgeous. Dude looked like a model but he liked plain jane ole ME. However, I overheard comments he made to other guys about how cute he found the girls covered in makeup and wearing dresses. It was clear that my lack of efforts to appear more feminine would mean that I’d never truly be enough for him. So why waste my time if i refuse to be that girly girl that he would find MORE attractive in the long run. So i quit pursuing him 🤷‍♀️ I had an ex who told me “youre too much” and literally followed up with the fact that he didn't want to get a job and do his part in the relationship. He said he wanted to let his parents take care of him as long as possible so that he could sit around and play games all day. See he wanted me to stay but that warning was a way to save me from himself. I say take it with a grain of salt and see the statement as a compliment rather than just someone being insecure.
#FeelFreeToList #OutOfMyLeague