Polls: Dating

I’m a big fan of cartoons and I was lucky to find someone who liked cartoons as much as me. :)
Would you date someone who likes cartoons more than regular television? Why or why not? 🤔

I watched a video on the world’s smallest stripper and thought it was really interesting and would make for a good question. Apparently everyone who knows her thinks she’s a gem. Would you date someone with dwarfism? Why or why not?

i do. it doesn't seem like you actually like them.
take for instance my friend. he knew this girl for awhile and recently they got paired up for a group project together. he told me he didn't even think of her like that until she asked for his number and started flirting. knowing that he's also quite desperate for a girlfriend, it just seems like he's only going after her just because, not because he's genuinely interested in her.
i honestly fear this. i dont want to be with someone and theyre only with me because no one better showed interest in them, not because they picked me and wanted me from the start.

We talked on Friday and he asked to take me out /my availability. I told him Sunday would be good. He confirmed the area downtown in the evening. I said yes. We exchanged one last text with me asking how his day was. He replied saying good and then nothing after. The date is tomorrow but he didn’t text back or to confirm. Should I send a text tomorrow to confirm or do I just leave it alone and make other plans? I have major anxiety with dating.

So this man is giving me anxiety. We just started talking 6 days ago. And here are somethings that aggravated me:

1. The first day we chatted on the phone he said, " do you want kids? If I was with you I'd reconsider and think about having more kids."

2. I said I was tired one morning and he text " oh I can massage your neck."

3. He said ," this weekends let's go here" the same day we first started talking. Like dude slow down.

4. Today, " would you like to come over for dinner. "

Why in such a rush. It hasn't even been a month. What is the rush...

You get a chamce to spend 12 hours with one of these celebrities and every expense will be taken care of then who would you choose and -

1. How will you spend the time?
2. What food will you order?
3. What topics will you talk about?
4. What is one wish you will ask her to fullfill?

When choosing someone to date, and they tell you their profession, would this be the deciding factor if you want to peruse further, or to cut it off?

Basically, would it make a difference if they worked at Taco Bell making $9.75 an hour, or if they were a nurse making $27 an hour?

Why or why not does this matter to you?

I have two scenarios I was considering:

One: I invite them over and as soon as I answer the door pull them in, turn so I am against the door and pull them for a fullblown I so want you kiss. Run my hands down their arms, to their hands and place them on my a$$ and squeeze. Lead them to the couch, get on top and go from there. (Alternatively lead to the shower is an option too)

Two: Invite them over and when I answer the door jump up and hug them. Then holding on to their arms ask "Um real quick could I have a kiss? I really missed you." Then the rest of the night keep a bit of distance. Not sit next to them, unless they ask. Hug them quick but let go. Kiss them only on the cheek. Until they want to go further. (They already know I'm interested obviously or this might not work lol).

In general I am usually an option 3 person, I initiate but wait till significantly intoxicated and um that way has hung short if ya know what I mean. So tryna switch it up, but 3xs has made me a bit insecure even though I understand the effects of alcohol on the body.

What would you predict the ratio to be if so?
1:10 ? Or?
Meaning for every 1 hot guy there are 10 hot girls.

I got super mad. we got into a fight and I threw some stuff and overturned things, and my boyfriend grabbed my neck and strangled me in order to stop and then threw me to the ground. I'm hurting now. Was that justified?

He sent me this:

“Hey sorry the last few days were rough. I know you’re feeling distanced I can feel it too... I don’t want to pressure you and I was kind of feeling like I made things worse. I’ve also been procrastinating telling you because once it’s said it’s said and I can’t bring it back in. Well here goes. I have this deep fear that once I see you that maybe you won’t feel for me how you think you do... or won’t feel how I feel about you. I know with all of me how I feel about you and part of me knows that I’d be lucky to even ever be with you. I don’t want that hope to ever be crushed. Part of me would rather live with the hope that someday I can make you mine then come to the realization that maybe you don’t want that after seeing me. I honestly feel more for you then I’ve even told you. There’s feelings I’ve just waited to say in person because even if I only get too say it one time then at least I’ll be able to look at you and genuinely know how you feel. I can’t lose that hope with you it gives me so much motivation and gets me through a lot of hard times because I know that everything is worth it if you’re there with me in the end❤️” THEN asked something like “What days are you free? I want to take you on a trip. If I wait til my life is perfect then I may never have a chance with you.”

Then he DISAPPEARED, but still viewed my social media stories.
I sent him a message after a week of silence and he stopped viewing my stories.

WTF is even happening?
He finally responded after 2 weeks. Wishing me a Merry Christmas saying he was in a dark place because a loved one passed, and that he doesn’t have any doubts about me, and he wish I knew how he “felt.”

We’ve talked/connected all day every day for 1.5 years straight, but I blocked him because I’m tired of being blatantly ghosted this month, but I can’t help but feel cruel. Why did he ghost me? Was it the right choice for me to walk away for good? My instincts are all over the place. I’m heartbroken:(

I do have a very innocent look. Seriously, I also realized that strangers are more likely to talk to me than others (asking about the way, complaing about smth, asking for a lighter etc. 😂). According to a lot of people I'm considered as pretty. Is this a disadvantage for me when it comes to dating? just by the look by the way

and would you date someone who looks Iranian?

I feel like my life is very sad and lonely to a lot of people. And they’re certainly right, it used to hurt more but I’ve become more content. I see people on social media all the time spending time with family and they do things together, friends and significant others etc. They don’t seem drama filled and everyone gets along so well, I feel like my life has been the opposite. I’m only in my mid twenties and can say that I’m always alone, I’m at the point where I know for a fact that I will never find love. Never been in a long term relationship, I don’t have any friends (online friends only but don’t count). I don’t talk to almost all of my family, I only speak to my parents and brothers. There’s been drama with most people I’ve called friends, workplaces, school life, family etc and I’ve just secluded myself. It’s become more bearable, at the point where

TL;DR:I am bitter and keep people at arms length. I was nicer and friendlier previously, drama happened. I’m to my self and what happens? Drama. I cannot win, people are just complicated and flawed. Am I just super unlucky? Or is this most people who seem to hide it better?