Do guys like to lead or for the girl to take the lead sexually? Read the details?

I have two scenarios I was considering:

One: I invite them over and as soon as I answer the door pull them in, turn so I am against the door and pull them for a fullblown I so want you kiss. Run my hands down their arms, to their hands and place them on my a$$ and squeeze. Lead them to the couch, get on top and go from there. (Alternatively lead to the shower is an option too)

Two: Invite them over and when I answer the door jump up and hug them. Then holding on to their arms ask "Um real quick could I have a kiss? I really missed you." Then the rest of the night keep a bit of distance. Not sit next to them, unless they ask. Hug them quick but let go. Kiss them only on the cheek. Until they want to go further. (They already know I'm interested obviously or this might not work lol).

In general I am usually an option 3 person, I initiate but wait till significantly intoxicated and um that way has hung short if ya know what I mean. So tryna switch it up, but 3xs has made me a bit insecure even though I understand the effects of alcohol on the body.
Option 1
Option 2
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Do guys like to lead or for the girl to take the lead sexually? Read the details?
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