Which boy should I accept out of these 2 guys. Both of them love me?

[Anonymous]

Boy 1 - Is in Situationship with me from 3 years, loyal person, selfish, possessive towards me, controlling person, he never provides me the love, attention, care that I need and always expects me to take the lead and if I don't take the lead he will start an argument about itBoy 2 - Is pursuing me from 3 months, loyal guy, ignores all other girls for me, loyal person, always takes the lead and shows me the love, attention and care that I needI didn't accept any of them still. Which boy should I choose from these 2?

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Update : Selecting Boy 2

[Lionman95]

From what you describe boy 2 because he shows you the love, attention and care you love. Though you don´t accept it yet he still seems to push the right buttons with you. I´d rather go for him because he shows that he´s ready for a relationship while the other one wants you for him without putting effort into the possible relationship.

[Asker]

Agreed with your opinion. Thanks!

[Honesttguy]

How is this even question. On plate 1 i have garbage food and on plate 2 i have frozen cooked pizzaDo you have hard time using your ability to think? I definetly wouldn't eat garbage but hey you do you i guess.

[Asker]

I have the ability to think. But need opinions from others too, mainly from experienced people so that I won't regret my choice for the rest of my life

[Anonymous]

Boy 2 any day. Boy 1 seems like he’s just unsure of what he wants and has been stringing you along for 3 years.

[Asker]

True. Boy 2 can be trusted more than Boy 1 because he have all the qualities that a right person must have

[Opinion Owner]

Yep Boy 2 is showing you actual effort, I wish you two good luck! Make sure to continue showing each other the love xx

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

Sure, I'll appreciate his efforts and show him back my acceptance

[LoveforYou]

Wait and see
Tho second guy is looking better.
But you should wait and see if the second one is really that good or is he just pretending to be such good

[In_Trance]

neither

[Sam_25]

Why can't have both?

[Asker]

I believe only selecting one option as I want to stay only with one person not two