Been trying to get the guts to ask a friend out on a date and was wondering if guys don't mind/ appreciate it when girls take the lead?
I'm not expecting anything out of this guy (ie sex/ one nighters, long term relationships, end up being the one) Just want to see if I like him in a dateable level in my point of view.
- Yes! Its ok to ask for the 1st date/ outing.Vote A
- No! Guys should be the ones asking no matter what.Vote B
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Totally. Someone did that to me, and it just communicated to me that they are blunt with what they want. I like it. I even encourage it. You hear that ladies? The sad truth is that a lot of men are extraordinarily thick. If there's that guy you like and you are trying to place "subtle hints" of your interest (such as playing with your hair, eye contact, etc. Typical things like that) chances are a lot of us won't even notice. Or we'll think you're just being friendly. A lot of us aren't too keen onto this sort of thing. So if you want something, just go for it! Plus it makes our job easier haha.0