Do guys like it when women ask them out?

[Agirlinneedhelp]

If a woman you've already been talking to asked you out/to meet up, would that make you less interested in her?

Also, what makes a women seem desperate instead of looking "confident enough to ask for what she wants"?

[Anonymous]

There are a tiny handful of men, mostly older, who would say no. But the vast majority of guys would love to be asked out by a woman they are interested in.

But that's the key, for both men and women. Neither is going to like having to reject someone they are not interested in, and neither wants to be rejected. The problem I think most women have is that they get rejected once and conclude men don't like women to ask them out and never do it again. Can you imagine if men did the same? The human race would have gone extinct a long time ago.

[Anonymous]

I would love it, but have never seen it happen to anyone, ever.

Why on earth would it make me less interested in her? It would make me more interested, because I know she is interested in me.

Men do not care about a woman "seeming desperate". This is something that only exists in the minds of women, so you will need to ask that question to a woman.

If a woman that we liked were to be "forward" with us, we would not view it negatively at all, we would love it.

[FilmGuy93]

I love it when women take initiative.

[20yearsolder]

Some guys don't like it. I can only speak for myself. It would be refreshing and I would feel flattered. Life is short, go after what you want.

[Stevefiveo]

I like that. It shows that she in not afraid to be vulnerable and trusts me enough to show that side of her.

[Jeklfux]

No I'd actually like that. Continuously asking looks desperate and the way she asks also can make some one look desperate

[CuriousMufuxka]

Hell yeah! Well initially anyway. These women I've encountered are very forward. While that's exciting and intimidating, it's also constant..

[Anonymous]

Not if they're being creepy and just doing it to try to sleep with me.

[CloudMassacre]

That would be really nice

[msc545]

We like it. Be casual about it.

[IHateBeingaMan]

why can't it happen more often?

[NathanDavis]

Yes.

[slatyb]

Yes, we do.

[Anonymous]

It never happened to me so I won't know

[Jmmmfi4]

Love it

[Anonymous]

Yea sure