Do Girls appreciate the amount of Guys that ask them out?

[CuriousGuy555666]

I was wondering do girls actually appreciate the amount of Guys that want to go out with them because from a guy's view, which is my view by the way. I would definitely appreciate it if half the amount of Guys who asked girls out, ended up being girls and asked me out because I don't think lots of girls realise how lucky they are to be asked out, so many times by guys. by the way I am aware that there will be some girls out there that appreciate the amount of times they have been asked out by guys but it seems like too me that most girls don't appreciate the amount of Guys that ask them out because in my opinion it is a lot easier if your a girl to be asked out by a guy rather than a guy being asked out by a girl. It just seems kind of unfair and like the guy normally has to make all the effort to get with a girl but then girls don't even have to make any effort most the time and the shocking thing is that few girls even complain like a spoilt child when they are asked out but like I say thankfully that is only a few girls. So my main question is that do you guys and girls think all girls appreciate guys asking them out even if some of the girls don't admit it?

[Reaperbot666]

Based on my own experience and guys I know.

It seems like guys have roughly a 50/50 chance when asking a girl out. That she will say yes. Provide she is available at the time the guy asks her.

Where as a girl asking a guy out has roughly a 75/25 chance a guy will say yes. Provide he is available when she asks him.

Now it is part of my understanding that. Some of this is due to primal urges between men and women. What I mean by this is.

Typically a man will try to find pretty much any breeding partner he can. With little or no standard as to if she may be the best partner for him. Because a guy is often per programmed to seek out. Any and all options he has.

Where as a typically women. Where as a women is often pre programmed to find the best breeding partner she can. Instead of settling for just anyone.

Again this is not always the case. But it is / has seemed highly likely. At least to my understanding.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Yeah I would probably agree with that comment to be fair from my own experiences and friends experiences

[Reaperbot666]

Wow I just noticed what I put and my grammar sucks. Sorry if it is confusing. But I think most people get the idea. Of what I mean.

[hahahmm]

Come on man. If i owned a restaurant and I gave you free everything anytime you wanted, do you know what would happen? You would turn into an entitled a-hole who complains loudly if the peas are 1/2 degree under heated or if your drink has too much ice.

It’s human nature with the vast majority of people.

[hahahmm]

Ask guys & they will tell you how women with big boobs tend to be entitled a-holes. All the male attention messes with their minds. Hot women too, generally speaking.

That was when I was 20s... but now it’s worse because a female who’s a 5 can get tons of male attention online as if she’s an 8+.

She’ll be in for a surprise later in life when she tries to get a serious relationship tho.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Fair enough I guess if that's your view

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

I appreciate them when they ask, take no for an answer, and go on about their business. What I DON'T appreciate is when they can't take no for an answer and they annoy you so much that even when you ghost them they still try to push it further. That is so annoying.

But anybody who knows me at all knows that I am extremely picky. I don't just say yes to a guy. I have standards. So if he's like the majority and doesn't meet them, then he needs to take no for an answer and move on.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Yeah I understand what your saying because when a girl says no guys should just leave it, even if it is tough for him just leave it

[WhiteShoulder]

Only if I like the guy. Otherwise I'm indifferent.

Let me qualify that. I like being admired by guys, and if they all stopped admiring me I would probably get upset. But as for any individual guy asking me out... unless I like him, it means nothing. I just smile politely and give him a standard excuse.

You seem nice and I'm sorry if I sound cold. Just keepin it real.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Fair enough

[WhiteShoulder]

Thank you for MHO 😊

[jennifer_bloom]

Not all girls get asked out as much as you think. If girls were asked out as much as you think - they'd all be in relationships and they wouldn't be single.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Yeah that's true but most of the time their likely to be asked out more than guys would be and some girls are single because their very picky when it comes to guys or just because their very unlucky and their not exactly in a guy environment but from what I have seen most girls are more likely to be asked out and have dated at least one guy before they turn 16, but yeah I completely see what your saying and respect want you are saying but I do have to say some girls are not single because they haven't been asked out much it is just the fact that they might not be in a good place in that moment of time and they might not be exactly looking for a guy but I am certain that girls get asked out more than guys because I have seen the amount of times guys back in my school and college asked girls out but then I cannot remember ever seeing a girl ask a guy out

[Ice_Sirène]

Yeah definitely it’s appreciated but obviously if a lot of guys ask you out you’re gonna eventually accept one and get a boyfriend. So if you now have a boyfriend and guys are still asking you out, that’s where now it seems we are unappreciative cause we now have to turn you down and that’s not the nice part

[CuriousGuy555666]

Ah I respect your view but in my opinion I would have to say boyfriend or not girls could still appreciate getting asked out even if they have no intention in going out with the person who asked them out because their either just not interested or because like you say they might have a boyfriend or even if their not looking for a boyfriend or a relationship in general they could still appreciate the fact the fact that guys asked them out

[Ice_Sirène]

Yep I get what you’re saying. For me it’s still appreciated I just get uncomfortable when I say I have a boyfriend but the guy is still hitting on me acting like he doesn’t care

[CuriousGuy555666]

Oh yeah when that happens to girls, it is just damn right shocking

[xyz94]

Yes, I do appreciate it when they are young guys, but not for the creepy older guys!

Please answer my question?
Guys, which girl appears slimmer? ↗

[CuriousGuy555666]

Ah that's understandable

[xyz94]

Haha yes! I don't think men should be asking out women who are young enough to be their daughter.

[OhWonderland]

Personally, I do appreciate them - but I can’t speak for my entire gender. I’m sure that there are many like me, but I’m also sure than there are many who aren’t like me

[CuriousGuy555666]

Yeah fair enough

[buttcrackjoe]

Being asked out is an ego trip and anyone guy or girl should take it as a compliment unless said person is a creepy old dude/woman so qualify that with average to above average looking people asking you out is most likely a compliment even if they rudely reject you it still tickles the vanity

[CuriousGuy555666]

Ah fair enough

[Anonymous]

Guys need to quit chasing that’s why all these women and teen girls have this entitled attitude. Men have put them so high on pedestals it is embarrassing

[CuriousGuy555666]

Ah okay

[Just_a_human]

I don't appreciate it or even welcome it

[CuriousGuy555666]

Damn well that's a bit harsh

[Just_a_human]

I wouldn't be rude to the person that approached me but if it never happened, then I'd be fine with that. Being approached doesn't make me feel good about myself, it makes me feel terrible.

[CuriousGuy555666]

Oh sorry to hear that

[Anonymous]

nooooooooooooooooooo

[CuriousGuy555666]

Okay fair enough if that is your view on the matter

[Opinion Owner]

IM OLDER THAN YOU

I HAVE MORE LIFE EXP

IM CORRECT

[CuriousGuy555666]

I never disagreed with you and I never said you were correct because I don't want to end up in controversial arguments with people, I just repeated your view that's all and I never meant anything else by it

[Opinion Owner]

you better say I'M CORRECT LOL

it's that simple

[CuriousGuy555666]

Ha ha and am not saying anything