Do guys appreciate being asked out?

Question

Would a guy be okay with a girl asking him on a date? Or would he think its desperate?

ZS007 · Accepted Answer

i did it twice 🥲 and went out with both. first guy ghosted me after and the other one just seemed like he didn't care like I did so I stopped contacting him. Funny thing is guy one seeing me again after months and trying to get my attention liking my stories unfollowing and following me again. Now I'm left with cringy memories but it was fun.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Asking someone out isn’t inherently desperate. Do you think every guy who asks out a woman is desperate? Ell oh ell!
If you resort to begging or groveling, then yeah that’s desperate. But if you ask in earnest, i’m certain most modern men would be appreciative, even if they aren’t interested.

PJH359 · Accepted Answer

No they don’t think it’s desperate. Some people, like myself, have problems getting the hint. Subtle messages go right over my head, I can’t read lips, and I a total shy introvert. So having someone directly express interest in me is a huge relief.

dogman7q · Answer

I think most women are ginder blinded. I mean as for hints I think most man or oblivious. but I had a girl come up ask me out. Don't get me wrong I liked it but questioned it because most females feels it's man's job because where a man. But if a man says woman's job to stay home cook clean and make kids we would be wrong.

This might piss a lot off but females know days want equality they say but then babied and special treatment because there a female. There's nothing wrong with asking a man out just not normal in today's time because man got females on pedestal giving them all the benefits of equality and not holding them accountable because they got a pussy between there legs

Shy_Steve · Answer

Most of us Guys would love that, Unless he sees you doing it to another Guy it doesn't look desperate.

If he is sort of Shy Guy he might think it's a bit weird but that's only because it most probably never happened to him before and he probably doesn't know how to act in that Situation, But if you don't Approach then I'm pretty sure nothing is gonna happen so go for it.

Anonymous · Answer

As much as women. I've never NOT been flattered by being asked out. I've never considered a woman desperate for doing it. But if I was turned off by it it's typically because the woman who did it came out of left field with it. It's cool that she knows what she wants. But you should probably give the guy some warning that it's coming.

20yearsolder · Answer

I can only speak for myself, I think it would be fantastic knowing that there's a woman that's interested in me but I didn't have to pursue

MTC29 · Answer

It would be appreciated, but seldom happens. I'm no youngster and I think I've been asked out three times.

FreedMan · Answer

99% of the time I'd welcome it. Setting is key here. Don't ask me when I'm clearly enjoying dinner with my kids (actually happened).

Torvaldtheflirt · Answer

If you're cute. I'll date you at least once. I don't care whether or not you come across as desperate.

I don't think it does come across as desperate either. I ask out women all the time, and in not desperate.

Berethor · Answer

Yea unless you unattractive, and even then she would still likely see it as a compliment.

boggboss · Answer

Don't understand how a women asking a guy out is desperate but a guy doing the same is nothing

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Yes I appreciate it and like it. Shows she's interested and I don't have to do the one sided stupid chasing game.

MysticDevice · Answer

I have no issue. Its all about equality now so that means women can and should have to make a move as well.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I suppose. I don't think I've ever BEEN asked out, before.

Staximus · Answer

It's not desperate if you don't have sex on the first date

BarryLiverstone · Answer

It’s not desperate. Is a guy desperate when he asks you out?

Anonymous · Answer

It would be an honor to be asked out by a woman want to date.

Petlover48 · Answer

Yes guys really appreciate that

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I appreciate it! It makes her intentions clear

bigpauly · Answer

I would appreciate it

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's a nice touch a girl doing it

Jouth · Answer

Project conidence. It's sexy

In_Trance · Answer

Some do, some don't

BLP11520 · Answer

Never happened to me

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