Guys, How do boys like to be asked out?

[Jezzzter]

There’s this boy I really like. I want to ask for his number or something, but given the fact that I’ve never interacted with him before, I’m not sure if that’d be too forward or make him uncomfortable.

I don’t know anything about him, so I don’t know what to talk to him about.

If you got asked out by a girl you didn’t know, how would you want it to happen?

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+1 y

Okay, so maybe not “ask out”, but more like become friends with him. How would I do that without being weird?

[caring__1]

Start by being observant. What draws your interest to him (other than physical appearance)? It's OK to share what impresses you about him. You can tell him you were impressed with the answer he gave in class. You could comment on a considerate action of his toward a stranger. You can notice he's into anime, like you, so let him know and share some of your favorites. Guys are more likely to respond positively if you show you notice things they say or do (rather than how they look). It may be scary to approach them the first time, but realize guys are scared of approaching girls the first time, also. Realize, you can't lose something you never had, so you have nothing to lose by initiating contact.

[DaveJord]

So honestly, at your age... just tell him that you would like to hang out with him sometime, and then suggest some things you two could do together. Its honestly never, and I mean never at any age... needs to be any more complicated than that.

[bolverk]

Now you know how guys fell when they want to ask a woman for her phone number or ask her out on a date, but get to know him first, and when you do build up the courage to ask him out be straight forward about it no hints etc just straight ask him out, Oh and be prepared for a rejection that what guy have to be fully prepared for every-time they ask a woman out, it comes as part of the territory,

[The-Stud]

Well I would recommend getting closer to him first before asking out
It would feel weird for probably anybody to get asked out by someone they don't know well
So just try to give him some signs first and see how he responds , good luck!

[Jezzzter]

Honestly, you’re right. I guess I’m just not sure how to become friends with him either haha. Kinda hard when you know next to nothing about him. Thank you for your reply!

[The-Stud]

Haha I get you
Well there's always a starting point.. you can start with simple short convos followed by little Hi's and smiles as you see him !!

[Jezzzter]

Funny enough, I hadn’t thought about shooting him a smile before haha. It’s kinda obvious so I’m not sure why I hadn’t thought about that, but thank you for bringing it up !

[The-Stud]

Haha.. good luck again!

[Holsen]

Just ask directly, if he is mean to you then he’s not the one or shouldn’t be liked!!

[RedInnocent68]

Directly. No drama. No hidden meanings. Just, ‘I like you, would you like to go out to…’

[boobliker]

just tell him you want to take him out and do ( ) with him, fill in the blanks yourself

[HouseMoat]

Usually just as a girl does. Make your intentions clear, so that he knows it's a DATE

[Andre911]

Normal , we are peoples , if he like you that will be great and say yes and if he dosent like you will be no :))

[bededazzle]

any way at all if i’m interested

[Nifrayu]

As directly as possible.

[Anonymous]

Say "Let's F*ck"