Polls: Dating

You don't feel like this person is the one for you, but for some reason, you feel like this person could win your heart over by doing things right and you actually want it to happen.

Has it happened to you?

Please answer poll in the order of the questions.

I see my family married all gone spend time with their babies & have family attend thier parties, holidays, etc. my brothers wife’s sisters all join together to make parties & all the bfs husbands fiancés attend.

ill be 26 and never had a boyfriend meet my family or spend a holiday with each others family or a bday party , barbecue nothing. My boyfriend said we aren’t married or I act like we are married. We go on dates alone & when we needs see his family he spends time with them alone. He has comitment issues so u can’t say let’s meet my mom tomorw or let’s go to your moms house eater for dinner. You will never get a yes reply back. 😔

& please don’t say dump him find new guy. I notice men disapear from my life but this guy never leaves all these past years & stays with me like a soulmate.

Maybe some people believe you spend time with family until you are married? Or is it normal have 20 new bfs & they all meet your family & break up get new boyfriend to fast meet ur family? break up new guy meeting family etc?

Deserves a second chance?

I would!:)

Am asking as a joke dont get offendedXD

Months ago I told a guy no one was ever going to put up with him because he’s too picky and complains about everything. He brags about his great looks and how he looks very different from everyone that live where we are from. He thinks he never has to worry about dating because he was good looking. His personality is terrible and I was telling him how just because he’s cute doesn’t mean someone is going to put up with him.

He’s grey & I’m purple. I shut that down bc I don’t like when they’re too friendly like that right off the bat. He hasn’t answered again since

I’m purple & he’s grey

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I initiate literally all our dates (the last time he planned something for us was probably 2 years ago), I usually am the one to initiate sex, I ask him how he is and about his day and he rarely asks me how I’m going, I sometimes talk to him and he actually ignores me. When he’s away working or on surf trips, I will ask him how he’s going but he never asks me how everything is back home. But he still says he loves me. And sometimes he says he misses me. We’ve broken up before because I’ve told him that I feel unwanted at times and that the live isn’t reciprocated and he didn’t really do anything to try and mend our relationship. I feel like I’m trying really hard now to keep our love alive but it feels so one-sided. I have even tried to back off because I don’t want to come across needy. I have my own life - my own hobbies, my own career, my own friends, and I do many things without him. I have been genuinely choosing to be with him because I want him, not because I need him. I love him very much but I don’t feel appreciated or valued and I don’t know what else to do. I’ve spoken and even cried to him about feeling unloved and he says he understands and that he loves me but that something might be wrong with him. When I ask him what he thinks is wrong, he doesn’t know. I’m 32 now and really want to find my person. I’m starting to doubt if he is the one for me but I still love him very much and want to make it work. But I also love myself and don’t want to waste my time if it’s obvious to everyone else that he’s no longer interested in me.