I see my family married all gone spend time with their babies & have family attend thier parties, holidays, etc. my brothers wife’s sisters all join together to make parties & all the bfs husbands fiancés attend.
ill be 26 and never had a boyfriend meet my family or spend a holiday with each others family or a bday party , barbecue nothing. My boyfriend said we aren’t married or I act like we are married. We go on dates alone & when we needs see his family he spends time with them alone. He has comitment issues so u can’t say let’s meet my mom tomorw or let’s go to your moms house eater for dinner. You will never get a yes reply back. 😔
& please don’t say dump him find new guy. I notice men disapear from my life but this guy never leaves all these past years & stays with me like a soulmate.
Maybe some people believe you spend time with family until you are married? Or is it normal have 20 new bfs & they all meet your family & break up get new boyfriend to fast meet ur family? break up new guy meeting family etc?
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You don't have to be married to spend time with each other's family.
Before I was married I spent quite a but of time with his family and vice-versa. It wasn't for major holidays (Thanksgiving/Christmas/Easter) but for the 4th of July, or memorial day, or even just a BBQ.
You don't have to be married...
I spend a lot of time with my girlfriend's family. We all get along well.
You can just be good friends.
What?
To spend time with a guy’s family. All you need is a good friendship. You don’t need to be married.