Men who’s are single 38+years old does it worry you and want to already settle down and have a family?

[Anonymous]

I came across this men at an even party at my job. While having a conversation he said “ my last girlfriend left me because I wanted to have kids but she didn’t..” and he seemed very sad saying it.
I realized he was the only men I have come across to express such worry. Usually you get to hear this from women so often. Not so much from men.
If you are a men 38+ someone who want to marry and have family and you haven’t yet.. do you believe think it’s hard to find love at that age?

I think it’s all a mindset you can be any age and still find someone…

[Anonymous]

I’ve completely given up on women for a number of reasons. I can’t remember the last time I actually had a good time on a date. Or felt loved, desired, or appreciated by a woman. Yes. I would like to have a family very much. I know it won’t happen, and if it were going to happen it would have happened by now.

Honestly at a certain point it just gets hard putting yourself out there. And now most people meet on apps, and well, I never match with anyone. Ever. I mean EVER. You just start to accept that you’re basically invisible that women are indifferent to you, and that you’re basically nobody to them. Why kill yourself chasing them, especially when they don’t want you?

[Asker]

It’s hard I know what you mean. But If you date online what you can do is look online near your area and ask then for a coffee or meet up right away. Not sending a message here and there this won’t help..
I’m sure you will find someone 💕

[Opinion Owner]

Nah. It’s better to be alone. I have a buddy who is literally in the midst of a divorce right now.

[Anonymous]

When I was in my late 30's yeah. Because I felt like it was my last chance. I didn't want to be that guy, that 60+ raising kids. It a small regret, but not the end of the world. And I was only 50% of recipe anyhow. If I couldn't find a wife I couldn't find one. 😆

But to answer your question yes it's hard to find love after 40 because before 40 women don't want to settle and men have an uphill battle finding a woman that wants to commit. After 40 men don't want to settle and women have a hard time finding a guy that still wants to commit. 😆

As we get older people have more baggage and people are more set in thier ways. It's just the way it is.

[HighValue]

Men have more time to still have healthy kids so until they are 50 they really don't need to be too concerned since their fertility won't noticeably decline until they pass 55.

[Asker]

I’m glad to hear that but that’s not the point of my question. I’m not asking for a competition by the way men and women fertility.
No young women is crazy to accept a 50 years old men due to love ever ever. it can’t happen unless you have million$ at the bank I can give you a child probably autistic one since at 50 your sperm health has declined a little. There is no way a mentally healthy young women go with a 50 years old men… unless age is a 45+ with a 50 yeah it can happen ofc

[HighValue]

I told you why they are not worried. Even listed the ages of fertility decline based on biology/science and you are offended because men have superior biology and can have healthy kids much longer than women can. The truth is for a man that wants kids, women past 30 have no value due to women's inferior biology when it comes to having healthy kids.

[HighValue]

I get it. You are past 30 and already lost your value to any good man that wants to have kids. That is why you are upset. You should have made better choices in life because ultimately YOU are the one that has to live with the consequences of your life decisions.

[Asker]

Ok. Good luck on finding a younger one.