Is it attractive to women when a guy has the attitude: "If you won't do this for me I'll find a girl who will"?

[Lynx122]

I don't just mean sexually but in general how she's expected to treat him etc.

Maybe not all the time but he's capable of it at least.

[7Phoenix7]

I think it depends on whatever it is that he's talking about. For example, if he meets a woman and she refuses to accept parts of his personality or culture... then I think that mentality is great. "If you won't accept me, I'll find someone who will."

It's more about finding someone who is compatible and if you realize you and her are not, then you make the choice to find someone who is. That saying though, "If you won't do this for me, I'll find someone who will" can sound a bit harsh lol.

[HollyK21]

Nothing attractive about men giving women ultimatums to get what they want. Same goes for vice versa.

[Lynx122]

I wasn't talking about threatening them just a vibe you give off the decisions you make.

[HollyK21]

I should clarify. Basically, ultimatums mean “if you don’t do this or that I can find a girl who will”. Maybe this works with a friends with benefits situation, but if this is a man speaking to his girlfriend, it’s just disrespectful and wrong. Why would finding another woman always be the man’s solution to his girlfriend or wife’s “no’s” within a relationship?

[Lynx122]

It's ok I just wanna ask thought provoking questions :)

[Chazmatazz269]

Ell oh ell! Probably not. Women want to feel special. Like they’re the only one who can offer you what you want and need. Telling them that you know for certain that they’re not special is not likely to be well received. Ell oh ell!

[Lynx122]

What is Ell oh ell? :) But thanks for your comment :)

[Chazmatazz269]

It’s like ‘lol’, only smarter. Ell oh ell!

[Lynx122]

Ah ok :)

[jack1924]

[NathanDavis]

repulsive is a more fitting word for that immature attitude

and it's also bullshit... because if he were capable or worthy of such person, he would have been with that person, lmao

[avery58]

F*ck no. That will just make me lose any attraction to him

[LaurenM1997]

No that’s bad attitude that would make me re think if I wanted to be with them

[Anonymous]

It’s the most pathetic attitude to have. One cannot fake it. Women sniff such men who are born with this mindset

[Lynx122]

I wasn't talking about faking anything.

[IslaTheWitch]

sayonara looser