Will men let themselves be used if a woman is attractive?

[Reem12345reem]

[Anonymous]

Not used no not for me. Some men yes. If she is nice and does stuff for me and is appreciative I don't mind being a lap dog as long as she is my lap dog. It goes both ways.

See I enjoy being nice for people who are nice to me and show appreciation. Not people who are on one extreme of feeling entitled. Or the other of being offended.

Like if you are too lazy to open a car door or pull out a chair. You aren't for me. If you can't watch me and try and learn how to fix things for yourself... Not for me.

If you think you're entitled to a free meal. I am not paying for anything and if you don't have money or walk out and not pay. I am not paying you can be fined or arrested for theft of services.

But if she appreciates me I will pay all the time. If she pays for a date both tabs I will do it more and if she appreciates my gifts and give me things I will do it more often

If she will scratch and rub my back and tickle my feet. Then I will do the same for her.

That is how things should be in my view. I know some people are into gender roles. But there even then is a give and take.

A man does certain things and a woman does certain things

[slatyb]

The men who will let themselves be used and abused will do it whether she's attractive or not. People accept abuse because they don't think they can do better, or because they grew up with a lot of negativity and figure that if someone is nice to them, they are wrong.

[shaysh87]

If you are an incredibly beautiful woman, you will have endless guys willing to be used by you. There are even married men out there who wouldn't hesitate to accommodate the needs of a beautiful woman. Doesn't mean they would leave their wives for her but they will definitely be more accommodating to a beautiful girl than a plain jane.

In college, I knew of a gorgeous girl who had her male classmates doing her classwork, helping her with projects. She never ever had to ask for help, in fact, guys would just jump to help her at every turn. She made friends easily with guys. She would have guys talk to her for hours when she just asked a simple question about a project. It really pays to be a beautiful woman. You'd have endless dogs eager to please you at every turn. Men are desperate.

[WhitneySnow]

There’s this one really pretty girl in our school and a lot of guys swarm around her and carry her books and buy her stuff when she wants. She loves the attention. Does that count as using them?

[Marianna546]

Hmmm interesting

[WhitneySnow]

A lot of girls don’t like her

[Marianna546]

Well they are probably jealous! Or she is a bad person

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 nah it’s cause they’re jealous. She’s nice.

[Marianna546]

Ohh you are friends?

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 not super close. But I’ve talked to her a few times. She’s nice. She’s a grade ahead of me.

[Marianna546]

Is she what is called popular in your school?

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 yes. She is. Most of the guys love her. And she has her girl friend group.

[Marianna546]

Great
she sounds cool... I didn't have friends at school i used to have but they always betrayed me or talked behind my back and did affairs

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 that really sucks. Yeah high school is really rough. I only trust my closest friends and I’ve been betrayed before.

[Marianna546]

@WhitneySnow I guess yeah... Guys crush on me girls hate on me lol

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 same with this girl I’m talking about! You must be really pretty.

[Marianna546]

Well it's true hehhe and thanks

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 np 😊. Anyway I gtg soon. Have a great day.

[Marianna546]

@WhitneySnow thankss you too

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

no offense but if the pic in your profile is you, i would never ever notice you as pretty.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 jealous much?

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

sorry if it was offensive but I was just stating the truth.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 okay buts people won't agree with you show me your face i am sure you are ugly and jealous

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

I'm pretty sure I have no reason to be jealous of someone who looks like you.
Sounds like you need a piece of humble pie.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

To me, you look so average. There are plenty of girls wayy more gorgeous than you. Ariana Grande would blow you out of the park.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 nope you are actually pretty mean and i never asked for your ugly opinion! Go fix your ugly personality

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

you're saying im mean because I said you're average looking? girl, you need a wake up call.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

does everyone always need to kiss your ass? and lift you to the sky? no i don't. nobody needs to do that.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 i won't read your comments if i am so average you wouldn't even comment anything just go away already! You write 1000 replies and i ignore it pathetic girl

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

I didn't mean to hurt your feelings though. Just being honest

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 ypu didn't hurt me because you are not true❤️

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 ypu are just saying that to degrade me but Ariana had tons of surgery while iam all natural and now go away with your BS

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

sounds more like you're afraid of the truth.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

you're the plainest jane I've ever seen. you're also the most narcissistic person I've ever seen

[jjj101010]

@shaysh87 she is definitely pretty

[Marianna546]

@jjj101010 exactly

[WhitneySnow]

@Marianna546 don’t listen to her. In your background pic you’re really pretty.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

beauty is subjective.

[Marianna546]

I know @WhitneySnow I don't know what made her be so mean to me i did not even ask her opinion

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 you are subjective

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

i wasn't mean. i just being honest.

[jjj101010]

Agreed @WhitneySnow

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

is finding that you look average a crime?

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 out of nowhere without me asking you? Lmaooo

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 you look worse i am sure go and hug your plastic pop star

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

people can post on here whenever they like. there's no protocol for when or where to comment.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

i think you're just narcissistic. I never called you ugly. I just never found you pretty

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 you are not right you are just mean and the bullshit you say to mroracle says a lot

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

Its not my fault you're so narcissistic.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 narcissistic is not me i just am confident and ypu are just jealous

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Honestly @marianna546 is my GAG crush and she is a beauty 10/10. @shaysh87You are certainly jealous comparing natural beauty to Ariana grande who is loaded with cosmetic surgery!

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 again accusing people? Lol get help

[Marianna546]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS thank you! Plastic surgery "beauty" lol joke

[shaysh87]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS

haha arianna grande will blow her out of the park any day. And no sweetie, I'm not jealous at all. I have no reason to be over such a plain jane.

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 fuck off

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 show me your face stupid

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

showing my face won't change the fact that I think you're a plain jane. just admit it, you're a narcissist who can't stand being out of the spot light.

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

funny thing is, i never even called you ugly. why are you so butt hurt? are you gonna track me down and kill me?

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 lol you are weird you can come up with a different argument I don't care talk to yourself

[Marianna546]

@shaysh87 i certainly don't care if you think i am hot or not other people do so bye Felicia

[shaysh87]

@Marianna546

girl, im entitled to my own opinion. i don't care if you're gonna track me down to kill me. but my opinion remains the same. Beauty is subjective. Not everyone is gonna find you attractive. Its time to eat a piece of humble pie.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

@shaysh87 don’t understand your intention here on bringing her down and trying to make her feel less pretty about herself.

[shaysh87]

@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS

is being honest a crime?

like i said, beauty is subjective. if you can't deal with it, thats your problem.

[Kaneki05]

Oh for sure a lot would and a lot wouldn't or a lot would try not to.
It's all very subjective. I have done so before.
It's just typical biases that build up in us when it comes to liking a person. It can be a learning experience in many ways and every person that would has their limits to how much they would be used. Mine is lower end than it used to be but I have something called limerence that I get frequently which makes it harder.

[Bob92220]

There is actually a niche in society that caters to using men by attractive women. I live near Los Angeles and there are Dominatrixes that abuse men for an hourly wage. Then there are plenty of sugar daddies that get used by beautiful young women.

[ChrisMaster69]

I don’t really think guys look at it that way.

I think some will let a girl take advantage of them, as in getting lifts in car, stuff done for them etc.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Personally no, I have respect for myself and I would be able to control myself in a situation like that

[litty]

Yeah, they are willing to empty their wallets. Be careful though because when a guy showers a woman with riches it's not because she's attractive but an ulterior motive like sex trafficking.

[FilmGuy93]

A little bit... don't expect most men to become doormats, but they'll usually give a woman a bit more leeway if she's attractive.

[Marianna546]

Well I don't use men so they don't have anything to worry about lol

[driven159]

No, it's not right no matter what being used is being used

[fred_durst]

yes , that is why "simP" word are so popular these days

[Chthou95]

a lot of men will. Those guys are called simps and beta cucks. But i ain't letting any woman use me

[Anonymous]

About as much as women will let them be used by men if they're hot enough.

[boggboss]

Many don't see it as them getting used at the time

[Truthatanycost]

Simps will... men will not.

[Chazmatazz269]

Some will, some won’t. I won’t.

[POSSY_HUNTER]

yeah , you can see many simps these days

[Bratsondanielle]

What?

[MikeInHawaii]

In general, YES!

[Freyke]

Only the simps will.

[dudeinohio]

Sure

[msc545]

Oh hell yes.