Do men treat a woman better when she’s physically attractive?

Question

I was talking with my cousin, and she told me that the only reason why, my sister always manage to get a romantic caring boyfriend is because she’s hot and men like hot women.

My sister have an angel skull, a symmetrical face, a clear skin, a hourglass figure, red hair and hazel eyes, she actually never wear make up since she’s doesn’t need it, and all men are attracted to her like crazy.

She’s kind of nice, but I noticed that the men she dated, wether they’re attractive or average are all crazy about her, cuddle her, call her every 30 mins, and treat her like royalty. Sometimes she even have to break up, because they always get too clingy. Are they obsessed about her because she’s hot?

Do men treat a woman better when she’s physically attractive?

5yrup · Accepted Answer

definitely, in my own experience men started trying harder to impress and treat me nicely once i stopped being plain and started becoming prettier

i once met up with a guy who i'd been talking to online for a year and after just three hours of talking he asked to be in a relationship. he didn't even know me he was just infatuated with my looks

i've never been in a relationship because i just haven't fallen in love or liked anyone so i think i'm quite numb to romance and i pity men who come asking me for it over finding me attractive

Princess199902 · Accepted Answer

hmmm they may be more attached to her because they aren't actually in love with her... they may be attracted to the idea of being in love with her, the way other people will look at their relationship and see him as a man who attracts “hot" women. otherwise, she may just be used to all the attention that she gets and has learnt to play hard to get so in her relationships, she might be a lot less attached to her man in comparison to how much her man is in love with her 🤷🏾‍♀️

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Yes, this happens all the time. I personally avoid doing this because I don't want to feed an enormous ego where that is the case (where a very attractive woman is genuinely nice to others, I will treat her with a greater level of respect). This is actually a benefit with women who appreciate the fact that a guy treats everyone well and appreciates them for more than their looks.

Now, the thing is that there are women who aren't attractive but still think they are and expect the sort of treatment you describe.

Tyler131 · Accepted Answer

She dates average men? I doubt that because I keep hearing women claim that Hot girls don't date average looking men. Anyways, women and men treat people better based on looks. I would assume that if she truly dates "Average looking" guys, which I still highly doubt, then these guys know they have to be amazing to her or someone else will replace them in a second.

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the time, yes.

However, I've had the misfortune of dealing with a couple of little boys who were still in the childish phase of being mean to girls they actually liked; yes, I've actually had guys treat me like shit and I assumed they hated me, then they confessed their feelings to me and were shocked that I didn't like them back. I had a boyfriend act like he couldn't stand me and thought I was disgusting, yet was also really possessive of me as well. Of course, these are mostly in the minority and mostly just guys who are extremely immature.

ZackBan · Answer

Actually I think less attractive women get more special treatment because guys are more confident with them and don't feel like they're playing out of their league. And therefore they can be nice and comfortable together.

By the way... You said you have a sister... She single?😏

BeMuse · Answer

I don’t. If you’re a bitch, then you’re a bitch. If you’re cool, good for you. It's common sense that physically attractive women are going to attract more guys than that want to get physical, but depending on how they treat people will determine how they get treated...

dhanyashree · Answer

Yah, it happens. Basically if guys meet her for the first time, they may see what's appealing. But if they start to know about her and still get crazy, it's not just the look. She is not just attractive because she is physically nice to see. I have seen a lot of pretty girls who get like not much attention after few times people start to know them. Everyone treat people whom they find attractive. That doesn't always need to be because someone is pretty.

Rohan-Thanekar · Answer

Unfortunately yes,, & I hate it,, coz I believe u lose Ur game when u talk to a person based on physical attraction,, u might do things u might not do otherwise,, so next time whenever u talk to someone,, talk to them without bringing attraction,, that make conversation better for both

jss123 · Answer

Women do exactly the same with attractive men. I'm not attractive so no matter how I treat women they go for the attractive bad boy instead. Run after him.. When they complain to me how they're being treated by the man they went for instead I flatly ignore them. Their choice.

Justlooking15 · Answer

Yes and the same for woman being attracted to attractive built men.

Personality is key, your sister is very confident which makes her very friendly and bubbly. And you give a person 10% more attention then they normally do you will get their ear. I have seen the most regular down to earth guys pick up drop dead gorgeous woman only because they are nice and friendly. Not rich, regular car and plain clothes.

dbr1987 · Answer

Every men does that. It's a good question. Just look at here. If a beautyfull Women posts a stupid question the whole comment section is filled with answers. In the case of your sister men put her on a giant pedistule and treat her like she is a goddess because they feel she is so beautyfull they are not worthy of her and are affraid to lose her. This is obviously not the way to go but the truth.

missymcfarther · Answer

No? I’m attractive and I had a lot of weird, gross men in college come onto me... basically, they looked at me as an object, not a human being. This has changed post-graduation though. Most men I’ve met in the real world are ok. But yeah, if you’re “hot”, some men will just look at you as sex and validation with legs.

MrOracle · Answer

Of course. Almost everyone is this way. There's a reason why most people in the movies and on TV are far-higher-than-average in physical attractiveness.

talloak · Answer

It's probably the combination of being very attractive and likable. If she were unattractive, she would not see the same level of attention and devotion. Based on what guys here say, this seems to apply to attractive men as well.

serious · Answer

Yes if a woman is physically very attractive, appealing or gorgeous in combination to her good personality then of course the man will treat her much better.

It is very true, at least to a great extent.

Cryostatic · Answer

I feel like the answer to this question is too obvious to state.  But I'm going to anyway. Yes. In general, people treat people they find attractive better than people they don't find attractive.*

Fran567 · Answer

Attractive people in general get treated better, it doesn't matter about gender

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, duh. There are other factors of course, but all other things equal the attractive women is going to be treated better. Like a guy could have all the same qualities as a woman, but a woman is more attractive so obviously I'm going to treat the woman better and invest in her.

imissedit · Answer

It's kinda true. I also seen beautiful women mistreated too by horrible men. and ugly women get good guys. to me she's just lucky

robertkotula · Answer

I feel inclined to treat them better. But I'm always as good as I can be to women. And even to guys fintry to be as friendly as they are to me. If someone isn't friendly, then i dismiss them.

Anonymous · Answer

Personality and her attitude will also have an effect, but it's true that men's treatment of pretty girls can be nicer, especially if they feel she is out of their league.

Kazza99 · Answer

Sound shallow to me - 95% (arbitrary number!) of attraction is in the mind and even the "hotest" woman or man can be completely unattractive long term if you can't find that mental attraction first and foremost.

GloriaMc · Answer

Your cousin is obviously something else looks like she's hitting two birds in one stone 😆😆😂 having a friend who is somewhat something else in the head is a no no not a good combination.

MackToday · Answer

That could be , lots of us aren't that bright and we think with our crotch not our brain.

KyleBroflovski · Answer

Everyone treats everyone better when they're more attractive. It's not gender specific

sexyhotasian · Answer

If you're slightly put on a pedestal, you're likely to be treated better.

theCobbler · Answer

Yes? If shes? that hot but heat and sexual desire are one in the same. So are her si Suitors. Only there for the eye candy and Sex with a hottie?  99 % yes

slatyb · Answer

Maybe she just doesn't get involved with the other kind.

Gatman34 · Answer

I treat all women horrible unless they are my mother/grandmother

Anonymous · Answer

No, that is not true. I found that guys are caring towards girls, that show them they are caring. Guys mimic the way you act with them.

glutendan · Answer

Everyone treats attractive people better. Ever heard of the halo effect?

YallgotKFC · Answer

Tbh it shouldn't matter about how you look all the time. Just bc u are considered hot doesn't mean anything. Every man has seen a girl and thought she is hot so who cares. Find someone who sees you as perfect not sexy and hot

AynonOMouse · Answer

If one girl is cute, one is sexy, one is pretty, one is average, etc. and they all treat me the same I am likely to treat the cute girl the best.

scooogy · Answer

I treat women all the same, unless she decides to let her makeup make her look like a clown, or she gives a fuck on eating healthy just to stomp around, or decides that her skin isn't metallic enough.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Look up the "halo effect", this is not a new phenomenon.

Bandit74 · Answer

Probably yeah, but don't women do the same thing with attractive men.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Yes, and good looking men get treated better by women. How society works.

rockrewls · Answer

Yes, and I would think it the same for men as well.  Society promotes beautiful men and women, which is sad because it is only outward appearance and does not speak to whats inside.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I think all people are treated better when they're attractive, be it man or woman.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I treat white and Asian women with large breasts much better than other women.

perislav85 · Answer

It is not a rule. If I am in love with her nevermind how she looks.

DonCachondo · Answer

It's human nature. Even babies have been shown to do it. Admittedly, men can be the biggest culprits when it comes to beautiful women!

Paul09 · Answer

Possibly, usually when a woman takes care of herself (or is naturally  hot) will attract more men. It is human nature after all.

jasco · Answer

If she's a girl I wanna date then ofc I am gonna be nicer

MrsDahmer · Answer

Yes, obviously.  Every used-to-be-obese women, not-so-good-looking teenagers, etc, that became cute and pretty after will tell you so.

BoxySama · Answer

Yes, the male psyche easy week, especially in the current age

Maxnanet · Answer

Unfortunately, i would tend to to think that social interface are easier for attractive woman

xylah · Answer

Yes I think so, because the more other men wants to have you, the more your boyfriend will be extra sweet for you not to look for others

GayLoner · Answer

Yes, just as you treat attractive men differently than non attractive men. They get more air time, you care what they say even if its stupid.

becky_woods · Answer

Honestly I have been told I'm pretty attractive but I feel like I get treated like a piece of ass but I get spoiled so its ok

DorkVader · Answer

What is an angel skull?

The_man_whol_aughs · Answer

Everyone is treated better when they are physically attractive

pandaeye · Answer

Just like how hot guys attract a bunch of women. Yes, look does matter.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah that’s a good part of it and if she is nice then that’s the rest of the reason

desperatelyhungry · Answer

As an ugly girl with attractive friends- YES

Adi95 · Answer

Yes and it is same for other gender

JustTheTrue · Answer

I treat them all the same

BlckGrl · Answer

Absolutely that's just the why it is.

charliemar24 · Answer

I treat everybody like shit. So no

ronaldo75 · Answer

You want to hear what you already know, huh...

slurreyboy · Answer

She will get guys but in the end they don't stay

Anonymous · Answer

gils treat sexy guys better

es20490446e · Answer

Yes, if they aren't bitchy.

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