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My father has an older Pierce Brosnan/George Clooney look & anytime I'm with him most woman & girls aren't afraid to that with him or gawk at him regardless of distance
On the other hand I look slightly like him but I inherited more of my mother's features & these same woman & girls who are all "nice" to my father are VERY distant/cold/rude towards me & sometime very sarcastic
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When people say that they’re intimidating to the opposite sex, it’s usually something they tell themselves to make themselves feel better.
I’ve never heard a man say this, but plenty of women like to tell themselves that the reason men avoid them is because they’re intimidated because they’re too smart for them, too successful, too confident etc. Rather than acknowledge that they’re probably turning men off with their annoying attitude.
Doesn't sound much like intimidation tho, sounds more how women treat unattractive guys, I should know 😂😂
You've also faced all the "cold/distant/aggression"?
Not aggression but the other two yea
Those are typically signs of hat they don't fancy you
Did you initiate anything for them to get like that?
Nah sometimes it just happens, I won't be liked by everyone and that's normal
But from my experiences the majority of girls/woman do this
Damn, what type of girls are they tho, like party girls?
All types
Average looking to very attractive & especially very curvy & thick
They get very angsty/mad/furious/scared when around me
Do you annoy them somehow tho? Or do they ever say why?
No
a lot of these girls & older woman are either neighbors or cashier's that tend to see me often
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I had an argument with one of the cashiers who was a THICC ONE over something very petty
The same with a female neighbor of mines who also was a THICC ONE but that was because she started frowning at me once we came into contact & then she yelled at me from afar that I looked "horrible" but with RAGE in her facial expression & vocal tone
I have never had these encounters, seems crazy no lie
I always do
It's not a 24/7 thing but it happens a lot more often than I'd like
A few girls also screamed & got all spooked when I just passed them by
An older woman got very aggressive with me but she was a fellow neighbor I had not too far from my crib
A girl who I lived around would always make it her mission in life to want to purposely frown at me at any opportunity she can if we ran into each other
I don't know what it could be, sounds strange, maybe you just caught them all in a bad mood
Doubt it because you know they switch up their personalities if some attractive guy showed up
Yea I guess, that wouldn't explain why others aren't treated the same tho
I always had this "aura" or "vibe"
The amount of beefs I had with woman over my "presence" or just my appearance is HIGH
a lot of them also used to get scared if we passed by each other... heads bowing down but frowning afterwards
Do you unintentionally look at them a certain way, if they see you check them out they can get mad, mostly if they always receive it by people, maybe it's that
Maybe... if they assume that but many times they instigate the issue first & my dumbass follows suit
But "Low Key" you're pretty much saying that females in general get mad if an "unattractive" person looks their way
I don't know, maybe, it depends how they were raised I guess, a girl with manners won't
I don't know if my looks scare these gals because a lot of them reacted to my overall "presence" on sight
In every neighborhood but it's mostly ends in BEEF
Don't argue back and hit them with charm, maybe they will relax
No
If they want the drama then that's what they'll get
I'm treated slightly better now now that many people know of my insecurities & bitterness
I'm ignored & not payed to any attention & the majority of the woman I had BEEF with aren't uncomfortable around me but rather calmer
Well the cycle will just continue, in order for it to change, someone has to break the cycle, if they hate and then you hate back it will result in more hate and it won't stop, if you reply with gate after you tried to break the cycle then the problem is clearly them and at the least you can get that peace of mind.
Hate*
They*
No
They caused me way too much trouble & petty turmoil toeven consider a "forgiveness"
The fact that THEY purposely went out of their way to cause me a lot of distress & purposely be "nice" to everybody else
That triggers me even now
Then you'll always be enraged, stuck in this cycle, instead if questioning it you might as well accept it cause it's not going to change, hate brings hate, it's just the way it is.
So I have to accept that I was looked at as "WEAK" for being unattractive & therefore becoming an easy target for petty disrespect while THEY coup every single one of life's benefits while laughing at me behind my back
They will laugh at you behind your back anyways, it would be hard to laugh at you if they are the only ones being petty and you had a mature and calm response to their hatred, all eyes and fingers would be pointing at them, you have no idea how many people I've clowned just by simply making them rage while I kept a calm vibe, whats easier? being calm and respectful to someone hating or hating back?, the real weakness is falling for the trap and reaching their same level of weakness, pride and ego is a trap in misery because you'll never find peace, if you are ugly outside and you rage back at them then you are ugly on the inside as well cause you matched their same energy.
But why mess with ME but ignore other guys who are on my level or worse?
Maybe you have an attitude or look like you do and they pick up on those vibes.
It's funny because there was a dude who was maybe 5'2-5'3 & thin as chopsticks & he dressed like he was homeless
Dirty clothes & hair
YET he was cool with every same guy & gal that had issues with me
I'm 5'9/173lb (I used to be in athletics) so I'm somewhat muscular but mostly lean/cut
I dressed average but clean & my face had no discoloration, scars, dirt, acne & yet I'm the one that got fucked with?
Then there's a vibe you give off, it's gotta be
As in?
Sexual?
Creep?
I wouldn't know
But a vibe that a better looking guy can get away with
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