Polls: Dating

Men, what skills would you like a potential SO to bring to the relationship that are not apart of her personality or career?

The other day I went on a date with a girl and she commented on my height. The last time we saw each other in person was about 7 years ago when I was 14 or 15, and I was a late bloomer so I was just a little kid. I'm now 6'2" and although she's seen photos of me, when we met again I noticed that she looked a bit surprised by my height. She later commented that I was much taller than she expected but she was really nervous and shy all date so I found it hard to read her body language and I couldn't figure out if it was a compliment or not.

I've heard that girls generally find height attractive but I'm curious to know how much it really matters.

I’m almost 25 and I’m still scared to talk to girls. I can be friendly with them, but I don’t know how to date them. I never have dated. I also don’t know what to talk about.

I also have been rejected before so I have no self confidence when it comes to girls.

I can’t even make myself more attractive. I don’t know what to do

Doesn't have social media

Has debt

Doesn't have a lot of friends, or people around them

Been single for years

Doesn't want to introduce you to their parents/family, because they have a disconnect with many of them

Has a history of being taken advantage of by other people

I’m almost 25 and I have no idea. I used to try and look for a secret or a formula to attract women. There just is none. I’ve been single all my life, I think I just have to hope for the best.

It’s so hard to attract women as a guy.

Me and my ex were together for some time, after the death of my girlfriend before her.

She kept me comforted and helped me get through it. Once I felt well enough, or so I thought, I wanted us to give it a try. But it became apparent that she didn't love me the way I loved her, and eventually, she broke it off, on good terms.

We contacted eachother now and then, just to catch up on how our families are doing. I asked her how her mom was doing, but instead of a reply from her, a guy claiming to be her boyfriend said "stop talking to my b! tch, I fuck her good".

Hearing that hurt, that message told me all I need to know about her boyfriend, if she considers him so. It tells me that he doesn't respect her, and doesn't consider the act of mating as a special thing that people who love eachother share with one another.

Although, I've moved on from her, and I'm in a new relationship, I invested just a little too much to ever not have any feelings at all for her. But most of them are me wanting her and her family to do well, and it's apparent to me that who she's with now doesn't respect her, and she deserves a man who does.

It didn't seem that she was much interested in talking to me, anyways, so I'll oblige, I won't talk to her, anymore. However, I received a call, and when I asked who it was, he told me it's "my exe's name" new boyfriend, and he said, "Look, my name is" But I quickly cut him off by saying "I don't need your name, my first impression of you tells me all about who you are. I have no wish to speak to you". Before hanging up.

He's made no attempts since then. For me to have such a strong dislike for a person to not even want to converse with them is quite an insult. But I figured that a strong insult, combined with my brushing him off, is all he deserves from me.

I wonder if I let my emotions get the best of me, I'm not an emotional person, but when it comes to love, I can't help but be a little emotional. Was I too mean?

The more attractive a woman finds you, the easier things will be for you

All girls here are stunning imagine

I've never dated a narcissistic person. I'm just asking the question because it has become popular online to diagnose other people with all kinds of mental illnesses just because they might not be that into you. I understand it's a much more interesting story if you got caught up with someone who seemed cool but turned out to be mentally ill, than if you're just dating out of your league and they had more attractive options hitting them up on their phone. But we shouldn't throw these words around too much :)

Let's see what the poll says :)