I saw this guy on the bus and im head over heels for him, should I go knock on every door to find him (where he got off) or would that be crazy?

[Anonymous]

We only met for like 4 or 5 minutes, but he was so handsome and majestic that i literally had a huge but i mean HUGE crush on the guy.. like i was feeling things!

It was crazy to me, to be catching feelings for someone I just met "on a bus" !! (That's the first time it's happening too)

He was between the age of 45 - 50 years old (I love old men) & had bright blue eyes 🤤 & a long white fluffy beard 😍😍 & he was short and chubby like I like... I couldnt stop looking at him and after that I couldn't stop thinking of him. He's the type of guy that would make me obsessed.

he got off the bus 4 stops after I entered, and I noted the street..

Now, I would like to find him and for that, I would need to ask the neighbors if they kbow this guy OR he will answer the door and thats it.. but is that appropriate? To me yes it is, because I am not a snowflake.. like if he isn't interested in young girls like me he can just say it, the end. What do y'all think?

Should I do it or is this crazy?

Sounds crazy but yes do it

I wish a girl did this for me

This is inappropriate and if this was me I would be scared

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah girl, I would not recommend doing that. As cute as your crush may be, knocking on random doors trying to find a guy you barely know from the bus is just too much. A few reasons why:

- It could come across as super creepy and stalker-ish to him. Guys don't usually like feeling hunted!

- You don't actually know if he's even single or interested in younger women. Don't set yourself up for disappointment.

- Neighbors may think you're suspicious and not want to give out personal info.

- What if he has a girlfriend or family? That could cause real problems!

I get the intense feelings, but my advice would be to let this one go. Maybe you'll run into him again by chance someday. For now though, don't do anything risky or make the poor guy uncomfortable! There will be other cute older men out there too. Keep putting yourself out there and meeting people in a normal way. Don't force something that isn't meant to be. You'll find someone awesome someday who appreciates your boldness 😊

[RebelinSteel]

While it sounds great you also need to be realistic in that he may be married or have a partner, he could even be gay.

The meeting him bit could be harder and more expensive, time and or money.

its a shame he did not leave a boot behind, it would have given you a reason to go door to door.

most bus stops are about half a mile or so apart or maybe a 1/4, so just because he got off at a certain stop, he could live the distance from 3 stops are apart.

[Asker]

I live in the city, there's a stop at every corner streets lol. So yes his location is precise ^.^

As for his marital status, yes I thought of that too 😞 but I want to at least try..

[RebelinSteel]

Well go for it

I did something similar, I walked a girl home from a pub and we both were drunk
I did not know her name
The following day I retraced my steps and tried to work out what street and house I walked her to.
I took a risk and chose a house that I thought was right one
Another girl answered but behind her I saw the girl I had met night before
We were in a relationship for nearly 3 years.

[Asker]

Nice!!

Would you like it if a girl went looking for you door to door after seeing omyou getting off the bus?

[RebelinSteel]

It greatly depends on the girl.
If she accepts the sorry not interested and does not go crazy on me.
It’s a thin line between Sherlock romantic Holmes and Professor creepy Moriarty

[Asker]

What if she's really young and hot looking tho? Pretty blue eyes, petite, nice ass etc

[RebelinSteel]

That’s the thing I don’t really go 100% of her being hot, I need an emotional connection or it just ain’t happening.
If I’m interested I can find someone.