Polls: Dating

this post was inspired from neha sharma, Indian actress that's taking a break from films and instead, she's dubbed as the queen of social media recently. reporters are complimenting her "business strategy" of making her fans pay a small amount to view her reels and all. 11,000 people have already joined the journey and now the actress is rumoured to earn 35 lakhs from doing nothing other than sitting still and looking pretty.

dare I say, her strategy reminds me of a certain American platform... - anyways.

imagine you're going out with somebody, they are adorable and supportive but one day you happen to see they support paid content on Instagram for pretty girls or celebrities. would that be a deal-breaker? would you pretend you didn't see?

I’m short & have blonde hair.
With any of these outfits I plan being a crop black jacket over & shoes black flats

I’m skinny so I like to cover my legs but fear I won’t like the tube dress as guys stare at girls that show skin like legs& shorts and belly crop tops so I’m hesitant of the tube dress even tho I love it

I like the long midi skirt the best but fear as it’s out of style now so I won’t find one at the mall

I never wear short skirts and I have short skinny legs so I don't know if I’ll feel sexy in that. Skirts look long on me as I’m too short. And if I get a super short skirt it’ll show my butt.

Or is it frowned against and morally wrong? What if she is 30 and is mentally a teenager and acts childish? Would you still date and hook up with her?

I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child and would only giggle when anyone talked to me. I went out with 3 of them with mine or their families. I again didn’t talk to them. It didn’t last long the shortest was like 5 days and the longest was like 6 months with minimal talking. We just sent hearts to each other.
I started “dating” in 4th grade and I’ve not dated anyone since the “last” in 7th.
Is it fair to say I’ve never been in a relationship?

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on FaceTime through a deployment & him moving across the country. Emotionally were closer than ever, we talk for hours multiple days a week, but he recently told me he doesn’t want a LDR so I told him I’d move & he didn’t say anything about it. I know he’ll continue to call & share with me like I’m his girlfriend, but he isn’t moving this forward or willing to try.

I really love him so I don’t want to cut him out, but I don’t see another option except saying “Unless you’re ready to commit or give me real space in your life, please don’t call me”.

I’m looking for a man’s perspective, please give me advice or say what you think I should do.