Polls: Dating

Go ghost, remove all contact. Silently work on yourself. Become unrecognisable and very successful.

So when she sees you in years or hears about you, you have really leveled up.

Once a girl has decided to end a relationship let’s say a 4 month intense one. She has made up her mind for good. Even after a couple months of no contact. That is it, they don’t come back.

I dated the most stunning girl from my small religion/culture. She was phenomenally beautiful in my eyes. She had v rare features like bright green eyes and fair skin and very natural. Never seen a girl like her - how does she even exist? We had a really good connection/chemistry too!

The reasons she gave me for breaking up with me were that I was tight with money. I did gift her small things, pay for the first 5 dates, and then we did 50/50.

I wish I gave her the full princess treatment. I wish honestly 😭 I am that way inclined to provide but my sisters mainly told me not too. I wish I could go back as she told me she felt protected when I would pay for her things. She wanted the soft life. She loved the whole ‘daddy’ thing.

The part that confused me was she didn’t want to give up work when she gets married.

I was good to her, but I should’ve just worshipped her so I know I tried my best even if she left so I would have no regrets.

My first girlfriend and I should have given it my all. I still tried my best but look back at small mistakes I made. My life is over 😭

#1 really caught my attention.

I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get.

however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if they think you are hot or just love the game you throw at them they will use that lust to tease or test you such as replying with...

"I bet you can't handle a girl like me anyways!"

or if its love that you are bringing to the table they try to bring the realness out of you such as replying...

"is that all you got?"

so with this said I think women really do know what a man is saying most of the time. whether she chooses to act innocent however is up to her and her culture from the looks of it

If a guy is marrying a girl, her past is his business right?

women look at men’s trajectory, men look at women’s pst to determine future! A guy needs to know if she’s been up to no good and hooked up with men etc… transparency is important

I am not saying he needs to know names but a guy deserves to get an idea of the full picture, how many guys she has let inside of her and dated etc…

A girl I knew broke up with a guy and then went to Thailand by herself for a month. She is very pretty. She went exploring from her photos.

She definitely got with guys no? Like I’ve never known a girl to do that, she must have got with men?

She gave me all the reasons she didn’t want to be with me. I told her I would change/improve. I tried to keep her. Even though I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong.

In the end I told her I would appreciate if she never contacts me again. Then I removed her completely off of instagram. Not that we posted on there anyway.

It has been a month where I have never contacted her once nor has she contacted me.

She has my phone number ofc

I remember always hearing about it, glad to say I have never done it!

Imagine a short relationship of a few months. A couple have sex and it’s a disaster, the guy fumbled it and like stopped randomly, so awkward and the girl is confused. Zero connection and zero pleasure.

Does that really destroy the attraction to him

What do women prefer in men?