Ladies, is it true that you're able to tell if a guy is hitting on you out of love or lust?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

#1 really caught my attention.

I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get.

however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if they think you are hot or just love the game you throw at them they will use that lust to tease or test you such as replying with...

"I bet you can't handle a girl like me anyways!"

or if its love that you are bringing to the table they try to bring the realness out of you such as replying...

"is that all you got?"

so with this said I think women really do know what a man is saying most of the time. whether she chooses to act innocent however is up to her and her culture from the looks of it

Yes

No

[DishLady]

Till recently I've always been able to see the very lustful guy's expression and know to find an excuse to back away. I apparently have trouble reading guys who LIKE me and want something more along the lines of a relationship bc the guys who like me are typically a little awkward about it... OR see that I'm confident and presume that I'm never going to be interested in "a regular guy" like them. (To be fair, I also don't look at every guy thinking "Ah, they're all crazy about me." and I work with A LOT of guys, so I'm perhaps desensitized.)

[jennifer_bloom]

I had a guy hurt my feelings terribly and unwillingly by rejecting me after learning I had health problems. Two years later, he was as interesting to me as a block of wood. My feelings 100% died out. So girls do forget people who hurt them.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

man I wish there were women like you out there. I never hurt anyone's feelings that didn't have it coming. though I have ran into a lot of women who held grudges on me over simple things like misunderstanding

[lilBigPotato]

Depends on the type of guy, for some it's more obvious than others.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

are you one of the ones that act "innocent" when it becomes too obvious?

[lilBigPotato]

I don't play games. If I'm interested he will know and if not I tell him to get lost.

[thegreenyogi]

I have a good idea... I go with my instinct on the basis of what I feel in the way of vibes.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

so you choose to act "innocent" by default too?

[thegreenyogi]

I don't choose to act anything at all. I observe, listen and form my own opinion about any man who shows interest. Most of the time I am right

[nastyb]

Not always upon first impression. It depends on the girl

[Cidknee]

Yep!