Can women always tell if a man is physically attracted to them?

Question

Or are there cases where a man would hide it so well that you couldn't tell at all he liked you?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

While some men may make it obvious that they are physically attracted to a woman through their behavior, body language, or verbal communication, there are also cases where a man may hide or mask his attraction.

It's important to remember that attraction is a complex and multifaceted experience, and that people may experience it in different ways or express it differently based on their individual personalities, experiences, and cultural backgrounds.

Some men may feel uncomfortable or self-conscious about expressing their attraction, or may be hesitant to do so because of fear of rejection or social stigma. Others may simply be more reserved or introverted, and may not express their attraction in a more overt or obvious way.

Ultimately, it's difficult to know for sure whether someone is physically attracted to you without clear communication or signals. It's important to approach each individual and each situation with an open mind and a willingness to communicate and build mutual respect and understanding. By prioritizing clear and respectful communication, both men and women can create healthy and fulfilling relationships that are based on mutual attraction and respect.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

I talk to 99% women on here (in my DM's I mean). Over the years there have been quite a few I've talked to. Before that, I've always had very close female friends.

I can tell you for DAMN sure... that "No. they most certainly cannot"

In fact, they are sometimes bafflingly bad at it. I wouldn't say "most" necessarily... but "many" girls are very bad at this.

I am very confident in this answer. Maybe more than any other answer I've ever given on GAG. 🙂

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

I can tell.

I post a bunch of stuff on my social media. Other than my own pictures I'm also sharing a lot of rants, memes, my art work etc.

The ones who are simply there for my looks ONLY react/respond to pictures of myself, and more specifically, pictures that show more of my body shape, so they are less likely to react to my photo in a loose tunic dress but they never miss when I upload a picture of me in a body-hugging turtleneck.

Do I mind being seen as attractive or guys liking how I look? No. Do I mind guys caring ONLY about my appearance and NOTHING ELSE AT ALL? Absolutely. I discretely remove them from my accounts because I don't feel comfortable letting them lurk.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I can confirm that I am clueless as hell when a man is physically attracted to me. I tell anyone that if they're interested in me, they better tell me! No flirting, subtly, or hinting because otherwise I will assume he's not interested or attracted to me.

But to answer your question, no. Some of us are dense as hell or just bad at telling when a guy likes us. It's not like most men will come up to us and say, "Hey, you're hot!" I honestly can't remember the last time a guy did that (if ever) to me.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Women are basically clueless when it comes to interacting with men.

DermalPunch · Answer

If you know what to look for, there is always a tell. Extreme coldness and silence is a tell. Body position is a tell.

They can seem like they haven't noticed you then you, let's say, stumble every so slightly and they are the first one's with a helping hand like they have telepathy or eyes in the back of their head.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I don't know if we're clueless, or just trying extremely hard not to read too much into anything. To play it safe I tend to try and believe he isn't, especially if I feel like I'm looking for it, because I can't tell what I'm genuinely picking up on and what's just a desperate to-grow ego.

ElGato31 · Answer

No, I can't tell. There has been 6 guys already, we flirted, touched, spent time together, went on week long holidays together, slept in the same bed cuddling, went on dinner dates, touched more. I thought they were attracted to me. They weren't, I'm cool to hang out with apparently.

thatssuppy190 · Answer

I would say a lot of men hide that they are physically attracted to a girl because of the fear they have that the girl is getting angry at them for looking at them or finding them hot. But not all of them tho

Men who clearly show that they are physicallt attracted are often the more extroverted ones or the ones who expressivally show their interest because they want someting from you, for example : sex, you being into them or maybe they are crushing on you

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I hide it all the time. I don't even know why, I just can't help it.
Especially since so many girls act weird towards guys they know like them. I like to keep them guessing and sometimes make them go out of their way to find out. Which they do lol

Flower7 · Answer

There have been times when I found out that a guy was interested in me and I’d had no idea beforehand.

DubiousIntentions · Answer

If you read some of the questions here on G@G, no one seems to know, or they all wouldn't be asking, "What's that mean?"

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I don’t think so, cause I had guys tell me people I thought were friends were secretly trying to date or sleep with me and I never suspected.

Adam1978 · Answer

Most are clueless or can only read a limited amount of men. Because we simply don't act on every person we have interests in. So our actions simply won't tell.

MrCommodore · Answer

You're using your female profile ATM, in case you meant to send this from a male profile. Sounds like a question a guy would ask.

LivDev · Answer

No, definitely not. Despite what comedy movies say, we can be just as clueless.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I've seen so many "what does it mean when he says/does..." that I can say with confidence that no, we can't always tell.

rienna888 · Answer

well it depends I had guy friends that were attracted to me and I didn’t know till they asked me out

serious · Answer

In think in most cases a woman can tell if a man is physically attracted to them or not.

thorboy · Answer

I hope not and doubt it... because there is a phat booty girl at my work that is a beaut and i'm in love with her, but I act like she doesn't exist.

TrillXHippy · Answer

If I’m being honest it’ll be a lot easier for you tell if a guy is physically attracted to you than it is for me to tell if a girl is physically attracted to me. Y’all definitely know

MountAverage · Answer

I hope that's a hyperbolic "always", otherwise this question would be pretty insane.

UncleBilll · Answer

I normally grab her ass, and kiss her neck, then she knows.

Anonymous · Answer

No, women intuition isn't really a thing. Most just think they can. I've had as many be wrong about me as right.

Shy_Steve · Answer

We are all Clueless when somebody likes us that's the Problem.

BrightBubblyKat · Answer

We usually know.

EmmaMary · Answer

I just let my woman's intuition tell me.

mobiusforniner · Answer

They know. They like to play dumb though.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Unless they tell me I can't tell.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I can’t tell to save my life 😅

Thot_Stomper · Answer

It’s their best tech.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm sure they can tell

spartan55 · Answer

Certainly not.

In_Trance · Answer

no I don't think so

Fuentes · Answer

Maybe

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