Can men normally sense whether a woman is attracted to them and sleep with them?

[Anonymous]

Like normally I have had guys take me on numerous dates/meetups... I met them for friendship, also because i was bored but i never will sleep with them

They then try to behave in a sexual way... like i tell them i was never interested or i make excuses that i am not ready etc

Like, seriously can't men sense whether a woman is interested from the start?

I have also noticed, the guys i have dated and slept with in the end, already sensed that I will sleep with them

can't men sense whether a woman is interested in them no matter how much they show off?

[hahahmm]

Ha. No, a guy is a hunter. He has to assume he has a chance of winning or he would never win the game in the first place so obviously he will make mistakes. Due to the metoo movement and constant cries of "toxic masculinity" more and more guys don't see the point of even trying tho so not to worry, in the near future guys won't bother and you will either have to do 100% of the work or be a lonely cat lady. That day is approaching FAST. Especially as you're getting older yourself anywhere. You're about to hit an armageddon of bad coincidences.

[Altheavas]

Assume he got chance…! I don’t get it? Randomly just like that?

[hahahmm]

@Altheavas Okay.. imagine you wanted to go fishing for fish. But mentally you believe you will NEVER EVER catch a fish. You would not bother to actually go because what's the point. You have to cross the hurdle of belief and have some level of confidence, to get you to the point of even trying. Most women don't seem to get this because they don't have to bother with taking risks. They also take rejection WAY HARDER than most guys. Now, I grew up and lived in places where this was true. I've heard in some places women are all aggressive, places where there's way more women than men. But that's another story.

[hahahmm]

So of course a guy is optimistic when he tries.

[hahahmm]

And of course it's not random for normal guys. He finds her attractive enough to be worth the effort.

[Altheavas]

What if she’s aggressive and sorta a hunter too and change the game, would that freak out a man? 😂😂😂

[hahahmm]

@Altheavas Traditional guys like me will tell you it's a bad idea because a traditional guy is not really attracted to masculinity/masculine energy like that. Also it would simply be proof that he is settling for someone he either didn't think was worth pursuing or who he was too cowardly to pursue. I never needed a woman to come after me. In fact, I often ignored women who made it clear they wanted me to try to get them BECAUSE they didn't meet MY standard. A guy with low/no standards will say 'yes' simply because she's making things so easy. And yeah, guys like me will also think that if you are chasing me, you probably chased 20 other guys and most guys say 'yes' so that doesn't make you valuable to me. I'm not that guy - never was. Best idea is to make yourself valuable from the POV of the TYPE of guy you want and then him being a hunter, he will come to you if he wishes.
Feminists will tell you I'm wrong because men aren't supposed to have 1.) opinions, 2.) preferences, 3.) standards not approved by women. But ask yourself what kind of man would agree with those 3 points. And is that the kind of soft guy you really want.. or want to be desperate for?
Anyhow, i wrote a bunch of my takes. Check them out sometime if you want.

[hahahmm]

Oh, and even the guys who do say, "I want women to come to me!", guess what? You will be the first person on their list to dump the second they see a woman they are actually motivate to go after. The woman who has just 1% better or more something than you do who he thinks he can get. But if a guy actually THOUGHT he picked you and he had to put in a little work to get you, he isn't going to look at it that way at all. That said, a lot of women today have made things TOO hard. Guys don't like games. We like it when women keep it real. But a lot of women do not.

[AviatorTom]

Sex is not that easy. The only way we guys know that the woman is interested or not is to make a pass... and see her reaction.

[Asker]

but even when u show obvious signs ur not interested they just dont get the message...

shouldn't it be obvious by now

[Altheavas]

@AviatorTom So what kind pass are those you make to see if they got a chance or not?
And what reaction are they expecting?

[AviatorTom]

@Altheavas Move in for a hug, and if she doesn't push back, go for a kiss. After that, the guy will know if she might be interested in more... or not.

A gentleman, which most (but not all guys are) will back off if she pushes back or pulls away.

[Altheavas]

Okay, I see @AviatorTom I don’t think these will work these days!

[Anonymous]

Not unless she's really obvious. Like I had a woman climb in my lap and start grinding on me and I thought, "I think she's trying to tell me something".🤣 But that is literally the only time I've ever known.

[YourSong]

No because like you said all men try it with you

[Asker]

they try it with most women, i noticed one guy get rejected so many times on dating apps

[YourSong]

You see. So they can’t know it, they just try it with everyone some take the bait some don’t

[Danny_dan92]

Yep, definitely