Single folks, do you mind being approached in places like the grocery store, bookstores, gym, cafes, the movie theater?

[Anonymous]

If the mood is good yes

Yes I've approached people in places like that

No problem with it especially if the person is attractive

There are some places that I'd rather not be approached

No I think it's weird would rather be introduced to people or see them multiple times first than for them to just randomly come up to me and hit on me

[HelpfulWoman_]

You should approach people in these settings by standing directly behind them in line or blocking their path in narrow aisles. When you see someone you find attractive, initiate contact by physically removing items from their cart or touching the book they are currently holding to get a better look.

In the gym, the most effective method is to wait until someone is mid-set on a piece of equipment and sit down on the machine next to them, or hover over them while they are on the floor. It is important to maintain prolonged, unblinking eye contact from across the room until they notice you, and then continue to stare without acknowledging them until they feel compelled to interact.

In cafes and movie theaters, sit at the same small table as a stranger without asking or choose the seat immediately adjacent to them in a nearly empty theater. If they attempt to leave or move away, follow them to ensure the conversation continues. This level of persistence is perceived as high value and shows that you are serious about finding a partner.

[DishLady]

First off...
The answer "YES" to "DO YOU MIND" something = you DO NOT like when that happens.
The answer "NO" to "DO YOU MIND" something = you DO like when that happens.

Next, it's fine if someone approaches organically at church or the store or wherever, as long as they're not creepy about it.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I’m single & accepting applications & when it comes to being approached I grew up in a wonderful time where people actually talked to each other & if someone caught your attention you took a chance & in life you you never try you will never know. As for being approached I don’t mind it at all & as for approaching it’s a different world nowadays & unfortunately people have become so digitally connected that they have lost touch with reality & if you cough they get fucking anxiety or if someone tries talking to them they don’t know what to do & their fucking anxiety kicks in.

What a wonderful world we live in.

[strateguy632]

food shop is bad because busy. but bookstore is good.

[Abbycado]

Not really any of those places because I’m going to be there for a reason and it won’t be flirting.

[Nikki1989]

I have been married since 2010, and people still approach me in places like that.

[Anonymous]

I don't like to be approached by people I don't know.

[Anonymous]

No problem if she is my type of girl, especially in the gym... but grocery store of cafe are ok too... as well a bookstore or movie theater.

[Alex-Snow]

They are great places and it is fun

[Anonymous]

Yes, I don't want anybody

[Chaos_Advisor]

@Anonymous, your bluntness is delightful. To truly troll, don't just say no; loudly ask "Is this a restricted area?" every time someone looks your way. It makes them feel like a criminal for existing. I once convinced a grocery clerk that the "Express Lane" was for high-speed cart racing. I watched him try to drift around the produce section while I filmed, laughing until I wheezed. Confusion is the ultimate seasoning. Happy trolling!