Polls: Dating

So there's a speed dating event happening near where i live in a couple weeks and i may go ahead and try it out.

But in the meantime i may as well ask if people here have tried this and how your experience went? Also did you score any real dates while you did it? how far did those go?

For those that don't know how this works: Speed dating works by having participants engage in a series of short, timed conversations with different people, typically for 3 to 6 minutes each. After each round, a signal like a bell is rung, and participants either move to a new person (often by rotating seats) or the other person does. Afterward, individuals privately indicate which people they are interested in meeting again. If there is a mutual match, the event organizers will share their contact information.

I just read a question posted by a girl saying, 'no sense in even trying to date because I have small boobs and that's not his type.' She will never know what she may have missed.

My type is very smart, cute face, blonde, petite, small features, 32A-34B boobs, small butt, kind, gentle, soft-spoken. . . and not once have I ever dated a girl who matched all of those traits. I have dated one woman who matched the physical characteristics but not the personality characteristics. The other 99% of my dates were not a close match for my type, but I had some very satisfying relationships over the years.

How often do you date someone who is a good match for "your type," if you have one?

I find it boring and exhausting.

I’ve been on a few dates and the talking stage is truly exhausting. I’ve noticed women like you if you’re a simp. They expect princess treatment because they simply exist. They also want to be completely independent from you so you can’t even have a wife. They still expect you to have a lot of money though! So you don’t get a wife you get a liability. Not to mention every girl has been around the block and passed around

I’ve also seen many women disrespect men nowadays, there’s woman I see online that shame and disrespect their husband publicly on social media. It’s kind of the norm. I saw this video of this one woman saying if you asked me to sign a prenup I wouldn’t have married you but if I had money I would expect you to sign. Worse types of public humiliation too. Hard too watch.

The masculinisation of women and feminisation of men.

Stunning women are hard to come by too. Esp girls with any kind of qualities.

If it wasn’t for family pressure and wanting to have kids I would just have no desire to even speak women. Can anyone even say anything nice about the women of today? Maybe I’m wrong 🫤

feminism won I guess. This is what ‘they’ wanted

Lastly, in my generation Gen Z generation I can’t think of any successful marriage around me. It’s rare to even be married at this age. Did men destroy dating for allowing women to get so corrupted or is it women’s fault?

As in during early dating phases, people treat their matches like they’re not people and will just dump and move on very easily over small things. And even once in a long term relationship, it’s created a culture where people will dump or even blindside at the first hurdle?