What’s something you know you’re weak for… when it comes to attraction?

Question

I’m weak for intelligence… but if you can make me laugh too, it’s kind of over for me... What about you?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Most of the above, but they don't need to be funny and they don't need to be confident.

Like, it's not a bad thing if they are funny, but I'm not with someone because they're a comedian. They just need to have a similar sense of humor and find the same things funny that I do.

As for the confidence part, many people struggle with confidence. It doesn't necessarily make them unpleasant to be around unless they're a Debbie Downer or Negative Nancy 24/7. If anything, I'd be happy to help give them confidence. It would make me feel useful and if there's one true thing in life, it's that men like to feel useful.

The other factors are definitely important though. Physical attraction is important because you don't want to wake up to someone you don't find attractive each morning right? I think it's important that your partner always wants to jump your bones.

Kindness is a given (for me anyways). It doesn't matter how physically attractive a person is if they're not kind or have a shitty personality.

And intelligence is important, but less than the other two. The truth is (and this is proven psychology), men tend to be attracted to women with around the same or lower intelligence, and women tend to be attracted to people of around the same or higher intelligence. It has to do with the dominant/submissive dynamic there usually is in a relationship.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It’s hard to explain but a sense of genuineness that isn’t fake but isn’t bitchy either. She’s blunt can stand up for herself and others. But when she says something you know she means it. Honest and loyal.

Kindness. A sense of humor and intelligence important too. But a genuine kindness not faked.

Beckybooboo · Accepted Answer

For me, it's always been a sense of humor. If you haven't noticed, @7phoenix7 during our interactions, I'm not exactly a barrel of laughs lol I can take life WAY to serious at times, so, it's amazing when a man can make me laugh and help me realize, it's okay to be serious but it's also okay to have fun! My husband is in law enforcement and when we first started dating, he always said, "did you know, Becky, it's not a crime to have fun"? I'm not that bad but people do mention how I'm always cautious and not not spontaneous. He gave me a perfect balance. He's a person, that takes his job very serious but can also have fun and enjoy life.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

It's intelligence for me too. I love when a guy can teach me something new. Humor as well but moreso intelligence.

TrueConfection · Answer

All of the above! I choose kindness as number 1 though because all the rest are lost without it.

ohsheeT · Answer

Yes if she is smart wise happy. Can smile. Speak with her eyes. And make me laugh out loud I would fall in love lol

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Garden chairs, if she owns garden chairs then I become a slave for her.  GARDEN CHAIRS I'M LOSING IT OMFG !! Ahem. Sorry. See you later. Bye.

VioletHaze · Answer

Intelligence and if he is assertive. I am weak when a man tells me exactly what he wants and how he wants it to happen. Not in a forceful way, but where he takes charge and I can respond rather than decode.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Good looks and kindness..
I use to go for intelligence and humor but they let me down so often it's better just to go for looks cuz men suck no matter what. At least if they are super hot and suck it's not as bad lol.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Probably my personality, I'm eccentric and inventor I never think inside the box. Ideas just pop into my head day and night it gives me the creeps. Women wouldn't want to be with someone who never acted normal.

aaron13547 · Answer

Kindness.

I want a women that pulls over to help a turtle cross the road. I can't he mad we are late when thats why...

I want a women that is afraid of spiders but also won't let me kill that same spider.

I want a women that even when she is mad at me she still loves me enough to do the same things she would if she weren't mad at me, (just maybe with a little sass, lol)

MemeSupreme · Answer

being funny having that chemistry is a literal high

Phoenix98 · Answer

Thighs.

MrChinaski · Answer

If you can make me laugh on demand, especially at times that ought warrant solemn sobriety, I will be yours forever.

Dnice1 · Answer

Kindness and good looks are a huge weakness for me. The sweeter the guy the harder I fall

jazzy34 · Answer

If he's good looking AND smart? OMG. I turn into jelly, lol.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I guess I will say humor, and a kind of confidence. I love girls that are straight forward and a little brash.. I've always loved women that are ultimately nice but hee a little strong willed and are not totally agreeable, but not argumentative.. And are also goofy..

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I don't understand the concept of "weakness" when it comes to attraction. Because I find myself feeling attracted to something, that means I'm weak? @7phoenix7 I'm at a loss. Can you explain this notion to me?

Xawyx-2 · Answer

If she is good looking, self-confident and dominant, I'm most likely weak for her ;)

whosnumber_1 · Answer

Someone who is genuine. That's attractive. That, and I know it's petty but I have a weakness for blondes. Lol. That's not to say that I don't notice brunettes and redheads or any other heads... But I will usually take a second look at a blonde. ;)

queenofcardio · Answer

When a guy tells me he's a runner , my knees get weak. Instant turn on.  He can just take off my clothes right there. ...

dragoblack · Answer

A woman who is happy to passionately yap about her interests... but also the next morning just underwear & dress shirt look

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Tattoos and a nice smile. You can treat me like absolute shit and I swoon 🫠

Anonymous · Answer

Good looks There, I said it 🤭👀😋  "Damn, lady" 🙌

msc545 · Answer

Definitely intelligence. Without that, there's no attraction for me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

All of the above except the good looks. That is very subjective.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman with a big heart. I've learned not to trust any woman that approaches me. If i can't see her before she sees me I can't trust that everything she is is all an act. And I've fallen for a lot of acts in my time. It's my fault, I like to see the good in everybody. But that is my undoing and this is the best way I know how to protect myself. I know I do not make good decisions when it comes to women.

lilBigPotato · Answer

All of those are attractive but intelligence does it the most for me.

slatyb · Answer

Making me laugh, but that requires a good deal of intelligence.

Shiprex · Answer

It's not appearance but a look can get me triggered

LiamJHayden · Answer

Musical talent. If she can sing/harmonize and/or play an instrument at least passably well, she starts out on third base.

Still-alive · Answer

On women its three things: empathy, sense of humor, communication. As long as i get a good sense of all three of these i may just ask em out.

exitseven · Answer

if she has a high degree of fitness,.

AydenHazor · Answer

I'm a sucker for compassion and playfulness

Tomislav7 · Answer

women make me anxious

Mon1to · Answer

emotional maturity (especially self control)

Abbycado · Answer

You. 🫢

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Records, root beer and Vincent's pizza!

Tungi · Answer

Nothing tbh I have great control over myself

DirtyOldMan777 · Answer

short cute loyal submissives.

nomomrnice · Answer

I like a nice puffy vag.

Staff2002 · Answer

A scent of them.

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