Physical appearances don't last forever, if it's the most "important" thing to them, then they're gonna be very disappointed and unhappy once the good or "attractive" looks start to fade as it will absolutely and inevitably fade because we will age, maybe not at first, but 10 years, 20 years, or 30 years later down the road, assuming if they ever stayed together that long. Focusing too much or solely on physical appearance is simply lying to oneself.
Either way, my point is, that physical appearances, no matter how pretty, how gorgeous, etc., etc., they simply won't last forever.
Absolutely NOT! If you don't find someone attractive, that doesn't mean you are a bad person. Not everyone will find everyone attractive. Just because he has a penis doesn't mean she will automatically be attracted to him. It's just like telling a gay guy to no be gay and stop liking guys and find women attractive. Doesn't work that way. You can't force someone to find any particular person attractive. People who shame others for being honest are the ones who are shallow because they only care about their own feelings in regard to a relationship they are no part of.
Yes physical attraction is important that's the key element that separate friends from lovers. She won't want to kiss him, or be romantic if she can't find them attractive. People who call her shallow are wrong, at the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder just because she can't find him attractive isn't her fault, you can't control who your attracted to. She should just be friends with him
It matters to a certain extent. It's not everything but you should find them attractive
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Not at all, there has to be some physical attraction for things to work out. People like to say personality is all that matters, and to a certain degree that's definitely true. This is especially true for online dating. They don't have to have the looks of the guy/girl of your dreams, but they can't be the ugliest person ever either. You wouldn't walk up to someone in real life without being attracted to them. The guys that say she's shallow sound like the typical "niceguys".
For examples go to reddit, specifically r/niceguys.
TL;DR it's perfectly normal, they guys are being "niceguys"
In a social context: Yes. Because it doesn't support the pillars of the nuclear family and traditional relationships and gender roles.
In a biological context: It's basically all that a relationship is. Physical attraction. Mindless physical attraction.
Your not shallow you like his personality but not his looks. A guy can look great and have a good personality but in the end it all comes down to you will you really like this. Guy cause of his personality and his looks or do you just like his personality. ( For example. There is a girl I know who has a beautiful body and a great personality but I can't see my self dating her cause she is not my type.
First thing anyone noticed about someone is their appearance. It's literally human nature to determine whether something is good or bad just by how it looks and whether it's appealing to the individual. There are whole sciences behind this sort of thing.
I will say hell yes and why well almost everyone judge's on looks but i feel this way. If your blind how do you see beautiful You dont see it you feel it in your heart. I feel society has messed people up attraction can and should be felt through the heart not just seen through the eyes cause some can't see it due to being blind. Just a thought 👍
Not in all cases it depends , as there is a lot people that have a bad or arrogant personality that makes people sick while they are so beautiful, and there is a lot of people that have a normal or below physical appearance but with a very attracting personality and charisma that makes anyone want to know them
It is shallow, by definition. BUT, if she's not attracted to someone, there's no reason to force herself to be with someone.
It is what she wants. She may like who he is but if his body doesn't make her react then it is time bomb waiting to happen.
No one should ever force themselves to be with someone if they don't feel fully attracted to them.
It is. But it is also hardwired into us. So we are where we are.
Its not shallow to have a preference. What if he was amazing looking but had a shit personality. They would tell her to leave him.
u No there always needs to be some level of phiscal attraction for the relationship to work
If she likes jis petsonality then enjoy hom for that. she won't know unless she tries. She may find him attractive over time.
Yes, physical attraction is important in a relationship but not very important. I prefer emotional, mental attraction much more than physical attraction.
No but it ultimately shouldn't be the only thing that matters.
No physical attraction is not important in a relationship.
Its not.
Marrying a slut (male or female) is shallow.
Well, a person have the right to choose a partner based on looks, but i prefer to choose based on personality only
There has to be some physical attraction especially at the beginning but there is much much more that needs to be there for a relationship to work long term.
That depend up on personal choice... May be some one prefer physical or some one just heart... if true love then... I don't think there is a barrier of physical appearance
No it's not shallow. If it's the only thing they care about then it is
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