My boyfriend doesn’t eat a lot because he’s a busy college student, but whenever I’m around I always cook a week’s worth of meals for him. The thing is, when I’m not around he just barely eats anything. I ask him if he wants to join me at the gym so we could work out together but he keeps saying that he hates the gym (he’s basically against gyms). I don’t want to leave him and I will never cheat on him, I also don’t want to straight up tell him that I’m losing the physical attraction (that I barely had to begin with anyway). At one point earlier in our relationship, he said he hated that I had a little belly pooch and that he preferred very skinny model like girls. He apologized for it and he never critized my body ever again. At that moment I just wanted to scream “well I prefer muscular guys but yet here we are” but I held back because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. What do you think I should do?
Tldr: My long term boyfriend is very thin, but I’ve always prefered somewhat muscular guys. Still decided to stay with him because I’m in love with him as a person, however, I’m losing my attraction but I don’t want to hurt his feelings by bringing this up. I feel really bad and shallow for typing this up...
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