Will my blue-eyed boyfriend see me as fake if I wear colored contacts?

[Anonymous]

So I have kind of like a boyfriend.. it feels like he’s going to be my life partner..

he has blue eyes. He has a daughter, she also has blue eyes..

before I met them I’ve always worn contacts purple, green, grayish green (not blue)

my natural eyes are brown.

Now I feel rather stupid or absurd putting them on because they have natural colored eyes.. I never felt bad about putting them on because it was part of my getting ready routine and it did make me look a little extra more put together like part of my makeup. I don’t really wear any makeup and the contacts makes the entire look come together..

but I can’t help but feel so “wannabe”ish now …

I never saw it that way at all.. and now somehow I feel like I’ll be judged.. in a bad way..

I have a lot of hair for example, and very long, and when girls who wear long extensions ask me about my hair and I reveal it’s all my natural hair, I can feel it in their face expression and mannerisms they feel uncomfortable now that theirs is fake.. they don’t say it but I see it and feel it, and I can’t help and feel the way they look upon finding out they’re fakes in front of that they’re trying to copy..

so my question is.. if I’m with them , should I stop wearing them?

Any guys here with colored eyes? If you found a girl and became your girlfriend an thought about life and family with her, if you notice she’s wearing contacts not for seeing but just to change her color eyes, would that make you feel like she’s a fake wanna be type of impression?

as of now he’s never seen me with contacts at all. I always show myself natural because I feel that is weird.. but if we actually stay together it means I won’t be able to war my pretty contacts again? Without looking all fake? :/

what’s you advice on This?

I have colored eyes and I wouldn’t care if you wore contacts or not

I have colored eyes and yeah don’t wear them anymore it’s a turn off

I feel the same and want to see the results

[Screenwriter]

Only about 7 to 12% of the world have blue eyes. 80% have brown eyes and and a few others have green or something else. Wearing colored contacts is a "makeup" choice. It's as fake as wearing lipstick or eye shadow. You take them out, wash off the other.

People who have colored eyes other than brown are unusual, and the unusual is often considered exotic. It's always been that way. I'm sure your boyfriend knows you have brown eyes. If he doesn't, you can tell him. I'm sure it doesn't matter in any case. He isn't hanging out with you for your eye color.

[Asker]

What 😐…

Of course he knows I have brown eyes, that’s the only way he’s ever seen me.

I used to wearing colored contacts but I have not worn them around him.

I’m asking if in general, people with blue eyes find it somewhat of a turn off if they suddenly see their partner wearing contacts. Or have some different impression of them.

[Hiker_011]

I have blue eyes, and somehow I've always dated women that have brown eyes. I'm attracted to that eye color, and they seemed to like my blue eyes. Your boyfriend might be attracted to your brown eyes as well.

[Asker]

But would you feel she’s kind of like a fake if she starts to wear colored contacts?

[Hiker_011]

It's not that it's fake, as much as I really like darker colored eyes, darker hair, and even darker skin tones. If a woman I was dating had those features, then she changed her eye color from brown to blue, bleached her hair, then wore makeup to be lighter, it would be as if she's changing into somebody different.

[Asker]

lol oh! I do lighten my hair!! It’s like fake blonde..

He met me like this with brown eyes but he saw a video of me when I had dark hair and he said I’m beautiful and that women to dark hair are always the most beautiful etc.. and that the mother of his child also has dark hair and brown eyes

But anyway I do lighten my hair

It’s like what you said lol

But at least he met me like this
Don’t would just be adding the contacts.. but I guess it would see as if I’m trying to change my whole personality but I’ve always been like this since I was 16ish always dying my har different colors and changing eye colors.. I feel I still look like me just better

[Anonymous]

How do you kind of have a boyfriend? You do or you don’t. Ask him about contacts.

[Asker]

He didn’t ask me to be his girlfriend. We just kind of clicked! He said he’s falling in love with me and I didn’t say it back but I felt it before he said it. And he said he’s happy I found him because he asked God for a family and I didn’t respond to that either but interestingly before I met him, I also asked God to help me find the person I could make a family and life with and then he appeared.. and I’m not even religious I just turned to God simply and he said he mentioned he also is not a religious person but he asked for a family to God without knowing I did similar..

And I don’t want to ask him about it,, of course he’s gonna say it’s not bad.. it’s like when a girl asks their boyfriend if they look fat , the answer is likely always going to be no even if it’s not true..

I guess I’m searching for honest opinions of people who have colored eyes who date others who don’t have them and then see them wearing contacts.. if it changes the way they see them.. etc