Polls: Dating

When I told my friends everyone was happy about it and asked me about it besides one who seemed annoyed I was talking about it. then later he told our friend that the girl I hooked up with is so nice and how he’s worried she's going to look bad and wish I’d stop talking about it.

But why does he seem to care so much? Does he like her? I mean if he didn’t then why does he seem annoyed and make those comments?

Hey I got a date and we love each other and we talk every day. Well we talked every day but she has not sent any messages to me in 2 days and I am starting to get worried. Once agine we talked every day but now she is gone. I am concerned about her. What should I do?

Also is it a red flag for you if it looks messy?

Which one gives you a sense of calmness and peace?

Back many years ago when I was 20, I was going in and out of psych hospitals and suicidal because I couldn't find a virgin to lose my virginity to.

One day, I met a girl on a dating app and really hit it off. She was 16 and the daughter of a paramedic. I was an EMT at the time and young myself. We were only 4 years apart in age.

Fast forwarding, we talked for a long time and we agreed to meet. I got us a hotel room and I drove 8 hours from my state to hers. We went on a date then went to the hotel and we ended up losing our virginities to each other.

After our weekend fling, she told me she did not want a relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We continued to talk for 2 weeks until one day I made her made her angry and she said she never wanted to see me again.

I was in college and 8 months later, I decided to find where she lived and drove up there again with a friend to ask her out again and apologized. Her dad answered the door and called the cops. I went back to my hotel and the police knock on the door and draw guns on me like a fugitive. I was arrested for stalking and I was later placed in shackles and transported to the county jail.

And guys has this ever happened to you on a date?