Polls: Dating

I want to be a woman's first love and first boyfriend.

They are perfect for you. They just worship Sunday on Tuesday evening. You don’t have to worship satan also with them.

For some reason the Tinder and Bumble dating apps are barely working out for me. I get matches here and there (on Tinder only, but not so much on Bumble), I almost took my dad's word for it... so I did what he said regarding the pics and I put in the bio that I'm just a chill dude looking for love, looking for a gym partner, and I got around 21 matches total but all of them were either catfishes or real ones reluctant to respond... even though I always wait a day+ to start a chat... so after about four days on Tinder I deleted the account, called my dad, he advised me not to delete it and give up because here's what he said:

that he's watched a show called "love prison" and there are relationships that started after a woman is a week to even two years silent before responding to a text message

I wasn't needy, didn't get too personal, didn't even go with the boring "h-word" greetings as my dad would have suggested I went with, but I asked questions based on bio's and attempted to play emoji character games to determine a movie and etc and still hadn't gotten a response in almost a week or forever really... but that's just Tinder. It's even worse on Bumble, I get a useless catfish match or even hidden likes that I don't even match with and that's with expanding the location to worldwide... I get no likes nearby... and here's the pics my dad suggested using (plus one I decided to use which my dad also liked)

That said I recreated my accounts on dating apps and fared even worse, still got three new-ish matches (still mostly catfish ones) on Tinder but none on Bumble... my dad suggested I wait for as long as possible but for some reason I don't believe my dad when he says that girls wait a year to respond... he said one thing that's true though and that's many girls are looking for a guy like me, I just don't know it yet

but I ended up deleting them again... even as though my dad told me not to worry about the algorithm...

For example,

Do you prefer a 5'8 guy or a 6'2 guy?

I am 28, and I make decent money from what I have been told. Although, I have never in my life had a girlfriend. I seek a woman without a romantic past anyways, which I know will take time, but women don't even notice me.

I think it’s one of the main mistakes that has lead to a cascade of problems. E. g infidelity, divorce and loss of family values

Mind you, same pictures and I think same bio too... :))) but this was on accident, I attempted to log in with my phone number and I ended up having to create a second account. Oddly enough, I went through a biometric facial verification process and was verified on both profiles and didn't get banned. I'm not banned on either profile yet.

One of my other Bumbles is assigned to my Apple ID and uses another phone number.

Both also have different Instagrams and now even different Spotifys connected to each other.

I've used the same exact pics but they are arranged differently on each profile.

Mind you, I deleted my Bumble twice and started all over within a week because I was dissatisfied with the results and algorithm. But I recreated my Bumble within 5 hours.

I have been with my girlfriend for three years but I cheated on her after turning 2 years with her. She doesn’t know but I felt so bad for cheating that I made it a mission to be the best boyfriend possible. I buy her flowers constantly because she loves them. I hire photographers to take cute pictures of us. I cook for her. I learn new recipes for her. I am becoming the best possible version of myself that I can be.