+1 yAfter everything life has thrown at me, I just don't believe any more. I'm not good looking, I can't drive due to medical condition, I've never been a social person and most of my friendships have been rather one sided. If I didn't contact them, we never talk. Eventually I just decided to end them. I'm just getting older and I've realized that most things in life are fleeting.
What can I offer or bring to the table that they couldn't get somewhere else and a better version? I've asked the remaining friends I have if they know anyone, I've tried dating sites, in person attempts, a wingman, and most other things. I've decided that unless a woman makes a move, I'm not going to be in one.
I've started to be content being single. At least I don't have to fret over what someone else wants or needs. Sure, I still dream about it, but that's all it is, a dream.
I suppose I'm technically single by choice in that I'm not looking any more.
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+1 yI have a new girlfriend, but no, I'll never find love again. Not until I die anyway.
Once you meet your soul mate, the rest are just place holders until you're reunited01 Reply
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+1 yEh, I don't know.
I don't know if I'm cut out for it. I would rather be by myself than be with someone that doesn't feel right or feel forced.01 Reply
+1 yI found it and just as quick lost it but I'm hoping to get it back one day.
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Nope, at best I will compromise out of loneliness and boredom and find someone else who has compromised out of loneliness and boredom. We won't love each other but we'll call it love so we can die without terror.
Any chance at actual love has been thoroughly snuffed out, as any part of me who would have been able to accept it is long dead. I was never compatible with the world to begin with.
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+1 yIt’s been almost 9 years now. I’ve made it a goal to stay single and without love for as long as I can. If I can stay single until the day I die I will go to heaven knowing that i have achieved a goal that very few can achieve.
20 Reply Honestly, I'm at the point where I'm comfortable with being single, so much so that I feel that entering into a relationship at this point would do little more than disrupt my routine. And to be fair, I have yet to find a woman in my age group that meets the standards I have set.
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+1 yMight happen, might not. Might bother trying to. Might not. Love is a bit complicated and unless I find someone who gets it I'm chill by myself.
20 Reply 14.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't know. I'm just not worrying about it anymore. After all I'm only 50% of it. I'll either meet someone who wants to handle the other 50% or I won't. I'm happy now and that's what's important.
00 Reply850 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think I have one chance with someone. But if not, then yeah I'm basically doomed to be alone forever.
04 ReplyI have been praying and fasting asking God to bring across my path a female companion for years now. But nothing to my avail.
However I do hope I get some one soon 😞😞😞 because I'm lonely.
00 Reply391 opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm thinking my chances are VERY low to find love, so I'm thinking probably not anymore. I don't desire to remain single, but it's not like I'm given a choice here.
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+1 yIt's been at least 13 years. If I haven't found it, yet, it's just not out there!!
10 Reply When I was single, I found it. She sadly passed away.
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+1 yi'm done with it after getting backstabbed and screwed over cheated on emotionally and mentally abused and manipulated i'm done with it
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+1 yI think so, there’s over a billion matches out there for everyone supposedly, I only need one
00 Reply569 opinions shared on Dating topic. Damn, those results are not positive at all, are they. What a world we live in.
00 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I think I f'd up my chances on that a few times. No light at the end of the tunnel here.
10 ReplyNot sure. I've been single a long time & may just stay that way unless the right one comes along.
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+1 ymy psychic told me I will find a boy friend but then it's been over a year already. everything she told me was wrong.
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and cocksuckers
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I hear ya
Of course I will. I mean look at me. I'm not so bad right? Won't someone please look at me?
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think I have to find it anymore. I already have it.
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+1 ymaybe maybe not i've been single 30 years now
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'm absolutely certain I won't and I make absolutely no effort to do so
00 ReplyNo, I am sure of it. Even I got chills typing this. It means my body accepts that too
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m +1 yI sure fucking hope not.
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Okay. I'll bite. Why?
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@Guardian45 Do you have any idea how much stupid shit people end up doing for love? It’s even worse than alcohol
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As a matter fact, I do. I did it. And I know.
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+1 yI'm broken. No woman wants me.
10 Reply 5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. The answer is No.
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+1 yIf I can find true Love?
00 ReplyHad my chance, muffed it!
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+1 yWell, I do try to keep optimistic
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I think you’re still too young to have lost all hope, I still haven’t lost hope probably because that’s all that keeps me going.
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I feel like that also but why would you have to go overseas unless you’re in another country already other than the USA? That’s usually what guys do from here., but since there’s 8 billion people on the planet, I think you’ll find somebody
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Most people in the world are vaccinated , so you have severely limited yourself
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Ok, I guess you will then
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The only ones I know kept getting Covid and almost died, supposedly being vaccinated has already warn off after 6 months and not effective anymore so it’s been more than a year for me but I’ve never got Covid since this whole thing started in 2019
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Well obviously it doesn’t affect me either way so I still have a chance at finding someone so I’m still looking and keeping optimistic
Ahah, most certainly I have <3
00 Reply567 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope, my time of that has been and gone
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+1 yI will if I want to do so.
00 Reply 454 opinions shared on Dating topic. I've found it ❤
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+1 yI hope so that i will find one day.
00 ReplyNo...
I'm not the lovable type.
10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Love is want but you dont need it to live
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+1 yNot a chance.
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+1 yIn this Life-forget it!.
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+1 yI mean I hope so
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yAbsolutely
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