I have a feeling I won’t 😞
I think the phrasing and the perspective is a bit off. Which in turn sets you up to fail.
I don't think you find love, it's nothing you find. You can find lust, obsession, overwhelming interest in others.
- Lust is shallow, Obsession is blind.
- Interest get things going but these things fade and it's after it's faded (which can take up to like 2 years), then the work and commitment upon which love is built can begin.
Love is not found, you decide together to build, understand and grow unified. It's a longterm undertaking, you must be patient. Lean into it.
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I found love, and we are getting married this Saturday, April 27.
Love is always a bit of a gamble, but if you put it in your head that you can’t or won’t find it … you won’t.
Try to stay positive and keep an open mindset.
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NOPE. I thought I did, but it was a LIE. I suppose I'll have to accept that I'm not made for relationships.
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I don't know if romantic love exists in a lot of places.
If I stay where I am, most likely; no. Perhaps if I move to a nicer area... I'll find someone, but to be honest, I wonder if it wouldn't be just the same problems wherever I go and I'm deluding myself into thinking girls don't act like that "in church," in a certain field, with better weather, with a more traditional lifestyle... whatever "the thing" might be... and I'll be unwanted THERE, too.
Chris Rock said it - Men are only loved unconditionally (perhaps) when they are children. When they grow up, it's "What do you do for ME?" "A man is only worthwhile if he provides something ("important")." I hope to be able to provide to keep someone... but I have to wonder.No. I do not think I'll find love and to be completely honest I don't want to find love. Love is a chemical reaction that compels animals (and humans) to breed. I'm asexual and aromantic and have too many things that would refrain a potential woman from wanting to be in a relationship with me. I'm an asexual conservative who doesn't want children nor marriage. With everything being about politics these days there's no way a woman would want to be with a Trump supporter who doesn't want a family.
No I don't either and that's how I voted. And that's fine by me because I've retired from the dating scene when I turned 30 just very recently. I always knew if I wasn't banging away in my 20s with women, then I'd just settle for single life bliss for the rest of my decades ahead. Happily, more for me. Me me me 😄😂
Probably not :( Just got my heart broken, got rejected.
Soon to be 25, had my first proper kiss few weeks back and I'm still a virgin.
I am despite that quite attractive, but I don't attract "my type". Life sucks even for women.I know everyone is going to tell me that I'm young and have plenty of time left but things aren't looking good for Mr in the world of dating. I've been attempting for about 3 years now to find someone/attract someone and I have failed miserably. I will probably just end up being one of the many single guys in their 30s.
I doubt but the hope still burns bright inside me :D
I found it before, but sometimes I fear that was a one-off. It's hard finding someone special who happens to be single, let alone the even lower chance of them liking you back.
I found it 10 years ago, and today it is stronger than ever, and I am not alone in that.
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I already have. I'm coming up on five years of being married.
It's better to let them find you then you to be looking for them. The more you look for her the longer she'll come to you and find you. It's takes time and you will know when the time comes. Your still young.
Nope.
Not in the real world anyway.
I found love. Now just to see what it leads to.
No, I won't. I know it given the kind of person I am
Nyet. I don’t think my type even exists. No one sticks around after all, and because of that I have to be wary of friendliness from any woman.
I used to think that way when I was younger too. Until one day I finally found my soulmate.
When I really want to I will, but that is due to my definition of love. I see love as a choice to seek the better for the partner.
over the year, I figure that if you stick around for long enough, you will get what you want. You just need to wait for long enough.
I better things to do than chase fairy tales.
I've given up on dating. Too complicated.
I already have found love.
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