Do you think you’ll find love?

[Anonymous]

I have a feeling I won’t 😞

Yes I do

I already have

No I don’t either

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+1 y

I reckon girls just find whatever they want as they are the prize not men

[CaptainOverthink]

I think the phrasing and the perspective is a bit off. Which in turn sets you up to fail.

I don't think you find love, it's nothing you find. You can find lust, obsession, overwhelming interest in others.
- Lust is shallow, Obsession is blind.
- Interest get things going but these things fade and it's after it's faded (which can take up to like 2 years), then the work and commitment upon which love is built can begin.
Love is not found, you decide together to build, understand and grow unified. It's a longterm undertaking, you must be patient. Lean into it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I found love, and we are getting married this Saturday, April 27.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That’s awesome! Congratulations 🎉

[OlderAndWiser]

@WhiteBoyChill Thank you, sir!

[serious]

@OlderAndWiser

That is great sir. I wish you all the happiness in your life going forward.

[DishLady]

Love is always a bit of a gamble, but if you put it in your head that you can’t or won’t find it … you won’t.


Try to stay positive and keep an open mindset.

[At3mis24]

What if he's an actor (note really famous) and the only one I can date? I'll keep his name secret, it's better; he's on one of my photos when I went in London last year, I only saw it after my trip. Staying positive is useless!

[menina]

NOPE. I thought I did, but it was a LIE. I suppose I'll have to accept that I'm not made for relationships.

[moneymagnet24]

You're gem pure gem
I know you since years ❤️

[menina]

Thanks.

[moneymagnet24]

Your welcome queen 😘
You're such a loveable darling ❤️

[Anonymous]

I don't know if romantic love exists in a lot of places.

If I stay where I am, most likely; no. Perhaps if I move to a nicer area... I'll find someone, but to be honest, I wonder if it wouldn't be just the same problems wherever I go and I'm deluding myself into thinking girls don't act like that "in church," in a certain field, with better weather, with a more traditional lifestyle... whatever "the thing" might be... and I'll be unwanted THERE, too.

Chris Rock said it - Men are only loved unconditionally (perhaps) when they are children. When they grow up, it's "What do you do for ME?" "A man is only worthwhile if he provides something ("important")." I hope to be able to provide to keep someone... but I have to wonder.

[itsclearlynicholas]

No I don't either and that's how I voted. And that's fine by me because I've retired from the dating scene when I turned 30 just very recently. I always knew if I wasn't banging away in my 20s with women, then I'd just settle for single life bliss for the rest of my decades ahead. Happily, more for me. Me me me 😄😂

[itsclearlynicholas]

Not to say I'm not generous and I donate.

[sawno]

Mistake dude, 30's is still the dating prime for men. There are a decent amount of girls who prefer late 20's / early 30's.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah man, to be totally 100, many guys don’t really have any chance until they are in their 30’s

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol I'd beg to differ
I'm now a guy wearing an invisible, happily by choice, "no unsolicited convo's or flirts" lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

Men are their physical strongest in their 30’s, and younger guys in their 20’s are trying to get established financially

[CriticalCatDad123]

No. I do not think I'll find love and to be completely honest I don't want to find love. Love is a chemical reaction that compels animals (and humans) to breed. I'm asexual and aromantic and have too many things that would refrain a potential woman from wanting to be in a relationship with me. I'm an asexual conservative who doesn't want children nor marriage. With everything being about politics these days there's no way a woman would want to be with a Trump supporter who doesn't want a family.

[Anonymous]

Probably not :( Just got my heart broken, got rejected.
Soon to be 25, had my first proper kiss few weeks back and I'm still a virgin.
I am despite that quite attractive, but I don't attract "my type". Life sucks even for women.

[Passerby2]

blame your parents. Its not you its how they raised you

[Awesomesauce2005]

What is "Your type?"

[Opinion Owner]

@Passerby2 I'm not sure about that honestly. My parents are in a happy loving marriage for 34 years. Supposedly, neither of them have ever cheated.

[Opinion Owner]

@Awesomesauce2005 It's hard to describe. I won't lie it's mostly looks. The guy who crushed my feelings is around average height, strong build, he's got a sweet smile, strong boyish features. Light type. I prefer that so much.
Personality wise he's moody which sucks but he used to be quite sweet to me and even playful, smart too.
Ah fuck. I wish I could forget him.

[Passerby2]

The idea you should find someone cand get married to them for 35 years is toxic

[Awesomesauce2005]

As for the parents my parents have been happily married for 21 years. As for the looks it's mostly a see for yourself kind of deal. If you dm me an email or snap or fb messenger or phone number I'll send you some pics of me. I promise that I'm not a perverted creep so you don't have to worry about anything graphic. I know how guys are nowadays and I'm nothing like that.

[Passerby2]

in what world can a man happily fuck the same pussy 20-30 years

[Awesomesauce2005]

I'd be interested in talking if you want.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 a loyal man and you are a ignorant asshole for thinking that relationships are all about sex.

[Passerby2]

then find a man to be best friends with, you'll have far more in common with another man PRESUMABLY... even if you have to find a slightly gay one like yourself

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 fuck off troll

[Passerby2]

You can't tolerate someone's opinion spoken plainly. You must have the build of a chihuahua. There's something about people with thin, skinny bodies and over reacting.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 you were and are being disrespectful to this young woman. You are being ignorant and immature. You have a chip on your shoulder because some girl wronged you and now you are taking out your anger on other people. It pathetic.

[Passerby2]

@Awesomesauce2005 young? She's 25. Young is 16.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 any woman who is fertile is young

[Passerby2]

You need to stop trying to replace competence with being nice.

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 Whatever do you mean?

[Awesomesauce2005]

@Passerby2 are you aware that it is possible to do both?

[Awesomesauce2005]

I know everyone is going to tell me that I'm young and have plenty of time left but things aren't looking good for Mr in the world of dating. I've been attempting for about 3 years now to find someone/attract someone and I have failed miserably. I will probably just end up being one of the many single guys in their 30s.

@itsclearlynicholas

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'm a *veteran* in that aspect lol lucky me, my claim to GAG fame here's my trophy 🏆 prize lol 😆 ...😋👀

[itsclearlynicholas]

I baked cookies tonight. Thats how I roll 🍪 🍴 🍽️

[Nikki1989]

I found it 10 years ago, and today it is stronger than ever, and I am not alone in that.

[IslaTheWitch]

I doubt but the hope still burns bright inside me :D

[sawno]

I found it before, but sometimes I fear that was a one-off. It's hard finding someone special who happens to be single, let alone the even lower chance of them liking you back.

[Unit1]

Nope.

Not in the real world anyway.

[scott04sa22]

It's better to let them find you then you to be looking for them. The more you look for her the longer she'll come to you and find you. It's takes time and you will know when the time comes. Your still young.

[BCRanger10]

I already have. I'm coming up on five years of being married.

[FatNeville]

I found love. Now just to see what it leads to.

[serious]

No, I won't. I know it given the kind of person I am

[82lynx]

Nyet. I don’t think my type even exists. No one sticks around after all, and because of that I have to be wary of friendliness from any woman.

[sheikalana]

I used to think that way when I was younger too. Until one day I finally found my soulmate.

[LiamJHayden]

When I really want to I will, but that is due to my definition of love. I see love as a choice to seek the better for the partner.

[whistlingwh0res]

over the year, I figure that if you stick around for long enough, you will get what you want. You just need to wait for long enough.

[Anonymous]

I better things to do than chase fairy tales.

[libsaretards]

I've given up on dating. Too complicated.

[Simslover92]

I already have found love.

[HelpfulWoman]

shut up and chill out already

[Sonorous]

I'm not sure that I want to.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep I got hopes for it

[Booklover_90]

How do you approach women?

[lmkimcurious]

Well maybe with that attitude…

[Fromdusktilldawn]

my hopes are dropping

[Clyde_123]

I dont know. I hope I will.

[NathanDavis]

I AM love

[grega239]

No. To old for that

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. Gotta believe. ☝️

[Anonymous]

No, I'm a bitter cynic

[strateguy632]

1st.

[LittleMelissa9614]

Yes, I will!

[laly520]

I already have

[Iron_Man]

I have it

[WhiteBoyChill]

You do? I thought you were single but, congratulations then! :)

[WhiteBoyChill]

I hope so

[boggboss]

I already have

[Asker]

How did you do it

[boggboss]

Found a girl that was attracted to me and grew the balls to make a move

[Asker]

I’ve made moves and failed

[boggboss]

Which mean u haven't found a women that was also attracted to you

[Asker]

Is it all my fault that I haven’t found a partner in my 27 years. I’ve tried.

[Asker]

Finding a partner is the hardest thing ever

[boggboss]

No I wouldn't say its all your fault then again I don't know you or the women u are attracted to so u could be aiming for women u can't intrested most likely tho I would say its just u been unlucky if I was to guess

[Asker]

Fair opinion. I am also a bit awkward. But there no cure for that

[boggboss]

The cure for that would be to socialise more I was crazy awkward maybe 8-10 years back then my brother forced me to start going out with him and I got comftble being myself and played into a persona of being way more confident then I truly am and it changed my ability to interact with others most people see me as a outgoing person when I'm still pretty awkward I just play it off as being a joker

[Asker]

So do you agree in the phrase fake it till you make it?

[boggboss]

It has and still does work for me its about gauging it tho don't come off as being overly confidant with new people just the right amount

[Asker]

Thanks good advice. More like just put your best foot forward

[boggboss]

Pretty much and u will 100% make mistakes and get rejected but thats normal and part of the process

[boggboss]

But all it takes is for u to find a girl that's somewhat attracted to you and things will work out

[Asker]

Thing is I’ve written a list of all the things I have going for me and it doesn’t coincide with my experience with women. I think women have ridiculous expectations. Dating apps is a good example. Women only swipe 1 in 20 times. When they’re not even supermodels themselves

[boggboss]

Because women have 20-80 matches weekly they have choice so they get to be picky

[Asker]

Which is why dating is completely destroyed as every girl is to believe she gets every guy

[boggboss]

No thats not true not even close to every girl has this mindset many online do because they get that type of attention then again dating online is one of the worst ways to try

[Asker]

For men at least

[boggboss]

No most women don't find the guy they are looking for either as their is so much choice they get dating burn out