Why is he confusing me?

[jaggerjagger1]

Guy who I was chatting too thinks I'm playing games when I've been pretty clear that I like him. He ghosted me for 3 weeks then I politely declined. Then after 3 months he started lingering around my work so I texted him to see how he is. Then we caught up, it was okay. Then he came lingering around my work 2 days after that. Then ignored my texts. Then 3 weeks later did the same.

What is going on?

He doesn't know what he wants

His shy

Other

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I don’t know know exactly what is going on with this guy and his behavior, as everyone has their own unique motivations and reasons for their actions. However, it's possible that he may be sending mixed signals or struggling with his own feelings and emotions.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your own feelings and expectations, and to establish clear boundaries and expectations for your interactions. If his behavior continues to be confusing or inconsistent, it may be helpful to take a step back and reevaluate whether this is a relationship that is healthy and fulfilling for you.

Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness in any relationship. Don't be afraid to set boundaries and communicate your needs, and don't settle for anything less than the kind of relationship you truly want and deserve.