Why is he so confusing?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’ve been talking to for a few months has been acting so distant lately I’ve ended it with him before because of this and he’s came back to me and apologized and he started doing it again so today I brought it up and he basically told me he lost interest because I made him wait to long to have a first date (we were talking for a long time before I hung out with him) and we’ve have little arguments here and there so I basically thought it was over and then a few hours later he calls me like nothing and I asked him what he wanted from me and he said “idk” and then I said how do u not know? U said ur not interested in me so u want a friendship? And he responded “for now” but he’s still acting how he was when we were talking we usually fall asleep on the phone together and he called me to sleep on the phone tonight… someone help a girl out lol what’s happening here?

[Whatever2929292]

I mean... Talking can be a lot of things. I talk to some people all the time I would not call it a relationship lol.

I would say leave him alone. Tell him that you gave him another chance and he is done. You don't need to be hurt if you have done nothing wrong and you aren't happy

[CrimxxDemon]

Because I like seeing the evil in the world, imma go ahead and say it. Men do that all the time, I'd get used to it. Basically he is going to keep you in limbo, and only come to you as a second choice. If he had any real interest in you, you guys would be dating. Men have zero clue how to be straight forward about anything.