Neither. This alphan chad, the first guy got you wet. You'll never forget him and you'll be pining for him forever. You'll just cheat on your boring nice guy so just break up with him.
If you can't lock down your first guy, chad's pretty much never settle down with anyone, then you'll just need to keep looking.
I assume you had sex with guy number one right? So, you have to convince guy number 1 to get with you and just move on and keep looking. Don't waste the 2nd guy's time. You can never be a good mate to him so leave him be. The bad boy already has your heart so just leave the "nice guy" alone.
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i picked guy 2 option - it's ultimately your decision of course and none of us actually know the true details etc, but i think it's better to try with someone that's more compatible. You said yourself that you're clingy and family oriented, you may have chemistry with guy 1 but he doesn't sound the type for clinginess or settling down right away. Maybe he is, or maybe he'll eventually get there, but think of your happiness too. Are you willing to wait/put up with his differences, and is he willing to do that for you? But if you're getting serious/exclusive with guy 2, better make your decision quick to not hurt anyone too much
2 is a better choice but
Choose 1. I wish I did
Guy that you can envision a stable future with but don't have intense chemistry with. Intense chemistry will most likely fade over time. Pick him and break off all ties with the first.
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hard to say. Choose both and pick the one that stays.
You can be Compatible with a lot of Guys, But you can only have Chemistry with one.
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