Polls: Dating

Many times I've been told that love will find me sooner or later, that if it's meant to be, it will happen. I'm 23 and so far no luck. I don't like to drink so socializing isn't really the best skill of mine.

At the same time people say that you should go and search for love, not just wait but then they say (again) that if you keep on pushing it, you won't find it.

What is a single person supposed to do then?

I do hope the text makes sense.

he asked me if I wanted to go see a movie together but since it’s just going to be the 2 of us can I assume it’s a date or no?

Do not worry about alleviating my concern about clothing. I’m not worried about what I’m going to wear. It works best for me to visualize events before I enter into them— it helps to keeps me oriented & not caught off guard, which helps me to not freeze up in the moment, which makes everything more pleasant for all involved lol

So knowing what I’ll wear is one less unknown. I do not like surprises, I don’t do well with them, so no need to tell me to enjoy the suspense of life. I just adjust to situations in the best way I know how per event. 😊🙏🏼

I have seen this stuff said before tho seeing it on the rise lately with videos from pearlythings & femsapian. I discovered them unintentionally pop up in my feed. They are all over & some people seem to gobble it up. Each video is recycling of these points:

Women expire after 25.

A women dating around will not only not help her learn what kind of partner she wants, but will destroy her ability to bond and make her ineligible used goods.

Women should marry young as a virgin, or no one will claim her and her life is meaningless.

If a women chooses correctly, she will derive great pleasure from obeying her husband.

Women having careers is the downfall of civilization.

Men don’t want to marry women who support themselves.

Women owe men their entire lives bc men must support them financially.

A marriage can not be a partnership thus is offensive to a man. A relationship must have a leader and someone who obeys otherwise it Is disrespectful to ken and only hateful loud mouth cheating aggressive women who don’t respect anyone l, want a partner instead of a leader.

Men expect obedience no matter what is happening within the marriage.

If the marriage is abusive, the woman chose poorly.

Young men are not under a time constraint bc they can marry later. They have time to date around.

A man should be a decade or so older then the women to make the marriage work.(despite the fact marriage in average is 3 years age difference plus or minus, either gender)

Women need an older men to lead them bc they are irrational and can’t navigate life.

A real woman will stay by her husbands side no matter what.

Birth control makes women lazy unaccountable & should be abolished.

Pregnancy is 💯 a woman’s responsibility.

—Femsapian has been divorced and dated around a lot.

—Pearly things is not a virgin nor pregnant but calls for abolishing birth control.

… Do these people consider what they are saying or do they not care as long as their audience subscribes.