Dating

Based on these five most recent ‘second date’ posts: Do you think he was behaving trustworthy or un trustworthy on our second date (part4) ?

I am P1 he is P2

(Was a bit funny bc he was like shaking his head slowly “no” while I was saying good solution”, So I laughed)

2 Well, I made you laugh 3 times thats something 😃😃😃

(That confused me not bc I didn’t Understand it was a joke but I didn’t get the point…So I was quiet)

2 Sooo ok how about this we just continue to spend time together and see how it goes.

1 yeahhhh 😬 so I’m never comfortable with “let’s wait & see”that even it’s what _I’m_doing bc it usually means something different to other people than it does to me…. For example, I AM “seeing how things go” but I think It’s different for me bc I do not have a cut off point. I do not have a ‘if something doesn’t happen by such and such a time, I’m out’ Such as sex marriage or fancy dinners or whatever lol. I’m literally just “seeing what is there”… Sooooo if someone actually IS looking for something specific and they are on a timer ⏰ , I’d prefer they just say that rather than basically “let’s see if it happens on time “ 🤪😎

2 Alright 🤔 Soooo In all that time we hung out, what two years now? I didn’t ask you out. Right?

(was confused & I thought he meant like “I do not care much about dating you at all”)

2 😛 I don’t mean it like that. What I mean is, I’m not in a rush to “date” I didn’t ask you out and I wasn’t looking to date, I agreed bc what do you call it “I feel some kind of way about you”… I was cool on my own. I have dated a fair amount and I’m busy now it isn’t bothering me to be single 🤷🏽‍♂️ I’m happy to get to know you but we don’t need to “date” if that’s not what YOU want. 😇

(So honestly at that point I wasn’t sure then what he wanted)

1 Sooo do you mean you want to stay friends? 🤷🏻‍♀️

2 Well, I def want to stay friends!😃 why wouldn’t I…. and maybe you’ll change your mind eventually and we can date if you decide. Meanwhile we can just be like this. If you want. 🙂🙂

1. 🧐 I have question but you don’t have to answer.

2. Go for it. 👍🏼

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1 🤔 while you were single, were you still having sex. 



2 OK sooo I do have friends with which there is a mutual attraction but where neither of us see a relationship working out and sometimes we spend time together.

1 Soooo would you let me know if you were still “spending time together” if I decided I was ready to date (in future)



2 Well, I wouldn’t be “spending time together” with them if You told me you wanted to date me. 😌



1 🧐 Well, what if I (in future) decided to date 👇🏻
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but I am not “ready to spend time together” (sex we mean sex in case anyone forgot or didn’t see it. “Spending tone together” was the euphemism he originally used for banging his friends) 

2 If I have a reason to wait, I can wait. But we don’t really have to worry about that at this point. 🙂🙂



1 🧐🤨😐Wait so then why did you go through all that stuff in the first place about how you hope you can marry while your grandparents are still here?

(CONTINUED on UPDATE SECTION of POST #4)
Based on these five most recent ‘second date’ posts: Do you think he was behaving trustworthy or un trustworthy on our second date (part4) ?
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