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Women are going to hate me for saying this and it ok because they are not what guys are looking for. Oh well here it goes.
This topic is easy. It's ok to not pay for a date. When guys do this your letting this woman get a free date with a chance that you won't see her again. Society has trained a woman to expect the guy to pay for all dates. Don't call it a date. A date is earned. Its way easier to get a free date from a guy. So next time you go on a date don't call it a date call it a meetup and ask for separate tickets. Do this a few times with the same girl. If she don't like what you did then she is not the girl for you. If she does then she is a woman that like you for you not what you have or your money. If it all works out with a woman then go on a date to where you pay. Remember you don't want to search for a woman search for a LADY. Trust me there is a different. Also don't be just a guy be a GENTLEMAN. Lookup both Lady & Gentelman and know the difference. Lookup want a man and woman is and then compare it. Remember woman are their for free dates and entertainment. Ladies are there for your time, efforts and the little moments thay lead to the big memories. They know that you will treat them like a Lady and they feel safe. When she offers to pay let her. It shows that she is independent and wants to pay. Don't question it. I know it's hard to do this on your first time. Don't look for the 99% of women that are out there loong for freebies. Look for the 1% for a Lady. When you find her you will know she is the one. Be careful though. There are women who play tricks on guys showing them some qualities of a woman. I call them the lower in a deck of cards. You will always get fooled twice but if you catch on cut them loos before you become a fool in the game they play. Don't be the player or the game. Be the one who walks away before it starts. Now it's game over.
I think you'll find that the harder things get, the more likely women are to latch on to the first man they can find who can provide any semblance of financial relief. Modern women only became accustomed to dating Chad and Tyrone because access to Chad and Tyrone was made easier through social media. As Chad and Tyrone batten down the hatches and become less accessible as they don't have money to burn travelling and wining and dining every woman they can find, women are going to settle for less just to avoid being dragged down into poverty. And the harder things get, the less they'll settle for.
u Then either stop trying to impress a woman with expensive outings, OR you have her pay for her half.
Free dates and really cheap dates are always great too. Take a walk through a park or on the beach, stop at a cafe, eat ice cream from an ice cream truck, etc. If a woman doesn’t appreciate any of that, she’s not the girl for you.
I hate that so many women EXPECT a guy to pay for them. Everyone needs to pay for themselves in the beginning.
They're the one who makes it this way, there's plenty girls on street who would like a simple date instead of a luxurious meal and expensive activities for the whole day.
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Dating isn't for everyone so if you're broke don't date.
Well, you shouldn't be simping in the first place. That's on you. But yeah, dating is harder nowadays because as women gain more equality, they cling ono more traditional gender roles more, like wanting men to still pay for dates in 2022 while whining about the non-existent wage gap.
Everyone who says this is a complete idiot who can do even BASIC reasoning.
How the FUCK would this even be possible?
EVERY SINGLE TIME a girl goes on a date, a guy is on a date too. She ain't dating herself, dude! So no--it is literally IMPOSSIBLE for it to be harder for men to date than for women to date. It's got to be pretty much the same.
This kind of retarded thinking is equivalent to saying "is it harder for the LEFT shoe to walk in the rain?" No dumbass--because every time a left shoe walks, so does the fucking right shoe!
Sure, the high inflation is going to affect a lot of people, but what you can do is get creative with your dates- leave restaurants and more expensive entertainment options out of the picture. Do some outdoors activities and bring your meals with you. The date is about the company more than anything else.
You must live in a very low Rent area if you can pay for all your Responsibilities by yourself with 80K. Most places Rent and utilities is a paycheck (2200), Groceries, Car, Gas, Fun, etc (1500-2000)
Dates don't have to be expensive. That's just the cultural default. A date could be practically free if you're creative with it. You could probably even design a date where you both make money off it. The important thing is you spend time together.
If you’re both broke then I guess you can split expenses but if the guy’s making more than the girl he should pay, at least until you guys become official. It’s only fair.
Go the the beach
Go to ice cream
A hike
Better yet save until you know you're ready to settle down with a woman.
Not a 50/50 type either, bc it will screw you over in the end if you go for those.
It's always harder for a man to date, period. :D
It's never bothered me because I make them pay... and open the door for me.
Everything is geting pricer and more expensive for supplies food gas most of all going out on date not so bad after all just need to take your time when dating in this economy it's very expensive it will cost more in this country
No, I never had problems with money. I am just unlovable. But I have come to terms with it.
I am glad I am too ugly to go on a single date, even with all the money I have ALL females cost way too much. An escort every once in a while will probably cost less in the long run.
It's really on you if you think women who can pay for themselves are non existent...
Personally I wouldn’t be wasting money on random dates right now.. dates are a luxury.
If you have a simple low maintenance girl. That appreciates the small things in life and not materialistic yes.
No, it's hard to date now, but it was harder before the internet. And before the internet everything was much cheaper.
It's harder on both sexes to date.
Everything like you said is more expensive.
That's natural selection. If a man can't afford to date, he can't afford to support children. Women know this.
Look for dates that are fun but more budget friendly. Discuss splitting the date right away.
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